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35 • Ottawa, Ontario, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–60
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Feb 23
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Very often
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Seeing Someone
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
Don't message me for random hookups.
Having to identify as bi on here bothers me. Reinforcing the gender binary is shite. I'm queer, and like people made up of all sorts of different combinations of bits and identities.
For a long time I didn't think I deserved to be happy. Over
the last few years I've been working on getting past this. Life is too short to be so unhappy, and miserable people tend to be poor company. I'm embracing honesty, not only in how I present myself but also in what I want and articulating it.
I am non-monogamous. I have a primary partner. I am more likely to want to connect outside of the internet if you don't identify as a cis het male (more likely does not mean exclusively). I haven't got a whole lot of time to devote to relationship building, so please don't be offended if I respond intermittently and disappear for large stretches of time.
I've been told that I look pre-Raphaelite. I'm 5'6", on the curvy side but proportioned in a balanced manner, have usually blondish hair (lately some blue and green), cerulean blue eyes, and pale skin with summertime freckles. I have Dutch, various Brit, and Canadian genetic heritage. Two tattoos, which you never would know until you get to know me very well.
My politics are radical. I consider myself an anarchist. I love talking about it, but I am not usually inclined to be the "Activism 101" instructor. There are plenty of resources for that available online. I am also a sex-positive feminist, even when I am not having sex. My biggest turn on is good politics.
Due to a complicated dance with depression my sex drive is sometimes 150% and sometimes 0%. I refuse to be someone's only source of sexual entertainment-if a partner of mine doesn't want other partners, they need to be fine with masturbation or going without (but going without is kind of fucky if it isn't a kink and I won't understand).
I am pro-cephalopod.
Some key things went awfully sideways for me very recently, and one of the things I do when this happens is disappear from the online world for stretches of time.
My passions include anarchism and community organizing.
If you believe burning your country's flag should be illegal, don't fucking message me.
If you believe that women have an obligation to shave their legs, don't fucking message me.
If you believe the world is a better place because capitalism, DON'T FUCKING MESSAGE ME.
If it appears that you haven't even read this profile I will likely mock you to whoever is nearby.
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