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35 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Woman


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  • Ages 25–60
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My details

Last online
Jul 24
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Very often
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Just here to note that this is a dormant profile. I wish you the best.

Don't message me for random hookups.

Having to identify as bi on here bothers me. Reinforcing the gender binary is shite. I'm queer, and like people made up of all sorts of different combinations of bits and identities.

For a long time I didn't think I deserved to be happy. Over
the last few years I've been working on getting past this. Life is too short to be so unhappy, and miserable people tend to be poor company. I'm embracing honesty, not only in how I present myself but also in what I want and articulating it.

I am non-monogamous. I have a primary partner. I am more likely to want to connect outside of the internet if you don't identify as a cis het male (more likely does not mean exclusively). I haven't got a whole lot of time to devote to relationship building, so please don't be offended if I respond intermittently and disappear for large stretches of time.

I've been told that I look pre-Raphaelite. I'm 5'6", on the curvy side but proportioned in a balanced manner, have usually blondish hair (lately some blue and green), cerulean blue eyes, and pale skin with summertime freckles. I have Dutch, various Brit, and Canadian genetic heritage. Two tattoos, which you never would know until you get to know me very well.

My politics are radical. I consider myself an anarchist. I love talking about it, but I am not usually inclined to be the "Activism 101" instructor. There are plenty of resources for that available online. I am also a sex-positive feminist, even when I am not having sex. My biggest turn on is good politics.

Due to a complicated dance with depression my sex drive is sometimes 150% and sometimes 0%. I refuse to be someone's only source of sexual entertainment-if a partner of mine doesn't want other partners, they need to be fine with masturbation or going without (but going without is kind of fucky if it isn't a kink and I won't understand).

I am pro-cephalopod.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Did a belly flop off the corporate ladder, in order to reclaim my soul. Although, I am proud of having smashed some gender stereotypes while I was on it (how many women have you seen change a pin lock on a 60-ft transport truck?).

Some key things went awfully sideways for me very recently, and one of the things I do when this happens is disappear from the online world for stretches of time.

My passions include anarchism and community organizing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Puzzles (the jigsaw type), crosswords, Sudoku, video games, hand massages, navigating public transit, staying awake for ridiculous amounts of time. Typing very very quickly. Spilling beverages. Avoiding using insight into my own situation. Or, denying said insight.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People often notice me tripping over absolutely nothing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently loving The Heartless Bastards and Timber Timbre. Cocorosie as well. Fan of Johnossi, Krista L.L. Muir, Stars, Emily Haines etc. Books I love generally without prejudice except for Heart of Darkness. A special love goes to Neal Stephenson. I rarely watch television, but am going through season one of Community right now. Movies: Lost Highway makes something twitch inside of me which I can't necessarily articulate, Lost Boys results in thorough amusement, and Heathers and Pump up the Volume are sure things. Food? Introduce me to something new and I will thoroughly appreciate it, given the only dealbreakers are pickles, olives, and mustard.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the Internet, ,anarchists, good sleep, caffiene, bodies of water, camping
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much I hate capitalism.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have phobias about eternity, umbrellas, and earwigs.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are significantly left of center, not misogynist, not racist, not ableist, not homophobic, not fascist, and not looking for an immediate hookup. I support immediate hookups, but I'm not here for that, and if you try then I can be pretty sure that you don't actually care what I have to say.

If you believe burning your country's flag should be illegal, don't fucking message me.

If you believe that women have an obligation to shave their legs, don't fucking message me.

If you believe the world is a better place because capitalism, DON'T FUCKING MESSAGE ME.

If it appears that you haven't even read this profile I will likely mock you to whoever is nearby.