Having to identify as bi on here bothers me. Reinforcing the gender binary is shite. I'm queer, and like people made up of all sorts of different combinations of bits and identities.
For a long time I didn't think I deserved to be happy. Over
the last few years I've been working on getting past this. Life is too short to be so unhappy, and miserable people tend to be poor company. I'm embracing honesty, not only in how I present myself but also in what I want and articulating it.
I am non-monogamous. I have a primary partner, and a couple of friends with benefits. I am more likely to want to connect outside of the internet if you don't identify as a cis het male (more likely does not mean exclusively). I haven't got a whole lot of time to devote to relationship building, so please don't be offended if I respond intermittently and disappear for large stretches of time.
I've been told that I look pre-Raphaelite. I'm 5'6", on the curvy side but proportioned in a balanced manner, have usually blondish hair (lately some blue and green), cerulean blue eyes, and pale skin with summertime freckles. I have Dutch, various Brit, and Canadian genetic heritage. Two tattoos, which you never would know until you get to know me very well.
My politics are radical. I consider myself an anarchist. I love talking about it, but I am not usually inclined to be the "Activism 101" instructor. There are plenty of resources for that available online. I am also a sex-positive feminist, even when I am not having sex. My biggest turn on is good politics.
Due to a complicated dance with depression my sex drive is sometimes 150% and sometimes 0%. I refuse to be someone's only source of sexual entertainment-if a partner of mine doesn't want other partners, they need to be fine with masturbation or going without (but going without is kind of fucky if it isn't a kink and I won't understand).
I am pro-cephalopod.