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xskunkpunkx

28 Grand Rapids, MI Genderqueer, Non-binary

Genderqueer, Non-binary

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–36
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 27
Orientation
Queer
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Jacked
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Status
Open relationship
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
anarchist, genderqueer, intoxication-culture-resisting, naively optimistic, anxiously awaiting collapse.

i like climbing waterfalls, dancing poorly, hangin out with my best dog pal, studying herbal medicine, sleeping through the winter, being barefoot, riding my bike, reading too many books at once, being effective, and living with rad kids.

i have a partner, and he's pretty great. we're poly (which means we both see other people and that's cool.)

i'm moving back to vermont in july.

also, i chose my user name years ago, so try not to hold it against me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
perpetually avoiding this question...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
tying knots. staying posi.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm not cool.

also, i have the most awesome dog.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books:
assata
nobody passes
red earth, white lies (or anything by vine deloria jr.)
wicked

poetry by audre lorde

an assortment of zines...

i also really like comics and graphic novels, especially x-men and dmz

music:
punk, hip-hop, jazz, folk, soul, etc.

food:
pizza, fall foods, herbal tea, coffee, ethiopian, anything with garbanzo beans, garlic, curry
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature
my dog
rad friends
books
music
a knife
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
i spend a lot of time thinking about how everyone feels hopeless and how we all need to be better at taking care of each other. i also think about ways of effectively resisting state oppression. and about how claustrophobic i get when i stay in one place for too long. and about how suffocating capitalism is. and the perils of civilization. and how i want to love people enough, and believe in them enough, that i don't slip into a vortex of nihilism.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
waiting on a bunch of entitled yuppies who insist on eating overpriced food and tip poorly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm not interested in hanging out with people who are attached to their smartphone, or tweet/ instagram/ tumblr regularly. i find that folks who heavily engage in such realms exist primarily as internet personae and have a tendency toward narcissism. if you list an electronic device as something you can't live without, we won't make very good friends.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*you have a dog and they want to meet my dog
*you like being outside
*you are interested in addressing/resisting the totality of oppression
*you understand that it is not the responsibility of marginalized folk to educate you
*you don't use the "N-word" with or without the hard "R" (seriously tho, i shouldn't even have to say that)

as an additional note:
i like most people, but the internet is quite expansive, and for me, it is also overwhelming at times. i like things that are tangible and real. unfortunately, the internet is a breeding-ground for all things empty and superficial. with that being said, please don't message me if you can't manage to come up with more than 3 sentences.

also, sometimes i don't check this thing for weeks at a time, so if i haven't replied to yr message, its probably because i haven't checked the site.