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xtsy

32 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Gay women only
  • Ages 23–46
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:55am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
They/their, please.

My gender identity looks like the spinning wheel on the Price is Right... Wanna see where it lands Next?

consider this statement:

I spend a good portion of my time unintentionally humming "Luchenbach, Texas" by Waylon Jennings as a default.

Social introvert nomad genderqueer tender queer creature with their heart on their sleeve...

not afraid to get out n' get down on the dance floor, take a hike in the wildwoods, or get wet in the surf (all in the same pair of boots, no less.)

Looking for:
-Adventure buddies not afraid of nerdy laughs and feelsfests.
-Hard working blue collar country kids,feminist genderfluid folk,
Feral femmes, dapper butch,
riot grrls, witchy sisters, radical faeries,
anarchist punks, permaculture nature junkies.

Good hearted, open minded. I like it.

Me:
A regular Alaskan Hillbilly Rock n' Roll qween

"Authentic" "Genuine" and "Vibrant" are also terms friends have used to describe me.

Basically, I dislike headgames and I'm not one to put on a facade.if i like something, i'll tell you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Swooning over Wolf Creek, and the magic I encountered there.

dreaming of when the next queer country junction/soul music dance party will arrive.

Scheming up ways to have a motorcycle by the time I'm 40.

Reading, lots and lots of reading for this bookworm.

Playing music, writing, painting, being generally a pervyqueer weirdo

Forming my own special kind of chaos magic

Throwing stones in the river, poking stuff with sticks.... finding art everywhere i go.

Building my dreams of a rad queer community on the land.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Navigating the poverty waters with ease and a song. Writing. Dreaming of a nomadic life. Waiting for the Grand Cheap Illusion (possessions, status, power, religion, control) to crumble. My life is one big unwritten DIY hipster blog post.

Touch. There's an element of power behind this big ol' piano hands, and i'm learning to wield it. Reiki is something i'm seriously considering.

singing. making babies laugh. having a smart mouth. Writing stupid songs to make someone laugh. Petting my cat. Knowing appropriate moments to ask heartfelt questions.

Finding the varied ways my partners receive happiness/feel loved, and slipping those things into their lives subtly.

Communicating my feelings and needs honestly.

Knowing when a song is worth pausing all conversation to absorb.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm not afraid to look them in the eye. And smile, usually.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books-
Andrea gibson
Tom Robbins
jeanette winterson
ivan coyote
Pat califia
inga muscio
Rainer Maria Rilke
Neil Gaiman
Louise Erdrich
Ann Pachett
Christopher Moore
Louis De Bernies
Gabriel Garcia Marquez
books that combine prose and science. books about birds, flowers, songs and birdsong, crafts, secrets, gardens, islands. southern gothic, broken down cars and quiet murdering in the swamp.

Music:
Sleep
Motorhead
Tom Waits
Wanda Jackson
The Be Good Tanyas
Com Truise
The Sonics
Damien Jurado
Dick Dale
The Detroit Cobras
Andrew Jackson Jihad
cocorosie,
antony and the johnsons
joanna newsom
karen dalton
jackson c. frank
First Aid Kit

food- italian. sushi. Bbq. Pizza.

film- Miyazaki. Shortbus. Dr. Who. Firefly. 60s sexplotation. look up Doris Wishman. Bad Girls go to Hell, Faster Pussycat Kill! Kill!
John Waters
The Cohen Brothers

Lowbrow, Weirdo, and Pop Surrealism style art.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-The memory of the sweater Jeff Magnum was wearing at the neutral milk hotel concert.

-the form of magic I practice

-the combination of being genuine, intuitive, wacky, and passionate.

-the adaptability and shamelessness that provides an appreciation for 3am chili dogs from 7-11, and also the love for vegan cooking. i'm ready for anything.

(Except instant mashed potatoes. If the apocalypse happens, and that's my only food source, shoot me.)

-sacred filth

-cumgiggles
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to manifest my dreams of living in a cabin, with a truck and a motorcycle. Escaping the city to live the wild hillbilly life.

non-monogamy and making it work in my life.

writing. creating art.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
these days? Painting, writing music, dancing, reading, flirting
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cried over a lost baby duck I couldn't rescue.

last week.

So... There's that.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can accept that,despite all previous evidence: I'm not "cool". (Nor am I "gold star", for that matter.)

You're a sweet boi/grrl looking for a switchy femmedaddy. Or a cohort.

You want to give me a ride on yr motorcycle/in yr hot rod.

adventures, silliness, and laughter are in your repertoire.

You feel like it. Seriously, don't be shy.