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xtsy

32 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
They/their, please.

consider this statement:

I spend a good portion of my time unintentionally humming "Luchenbach, Texas" by Waylon Jennings as a default.

Social introvert nomad feels creature with their heart on their sleeve...

not afraid to get out n' get down on the dance floor, take a hike in the wildwoods, or get wet in the surf (all in the same pair of boots, no less.)

I am in the process of rapid changes, heading towards an experience based, socially conscious, anti consumerist lifestyle.... and keeping it silly all the meanwhile.

Looking for:
-Adventure buddies not afraid of nerdy laughs and feelsfests.
-Hard working blue collar country kids,feminist genderfluid folk,
high femmes, dapper butch,
riot grrls, witchy sisters, radical faeries,
anarchist punks, permaculture nature junkies.

Good hearted, open minded. I like it.

Me:
colorful and raunchy Witch Bitch with the right amount of jiggle.

A regular Alaskan Hillbilly Rock n' Roll qween

"Authentic" "Genuine" and "Vibrant" are also terms friends have used to describe me.

Basically, I dislike headgames and I'm not one to put on a facade.

if i like something, i'll tell you.
What I’m doing with my life
Swooning over Wolf Creek, and the magic I encountered there.

dreaming of when the next queer country junction/soul music dance party will arrive.

Scheming up ways to have a motorcycle by the time I'm 40.

Reading, lots and lots of reading for this bookworm.

being the best rocknroll mama that i can be

Playing music, writing, painting,

Throwing stones in the river, poking stuff with sticks.... finding art everywhere i go.

going back to school to do what i've wanted to do since i was young.
I’m really good at
Navigating the poverty waters with ease and a song. Writing. Dreaming of a nomadic life. Waiting for the Grand Cheap Illusion (possessions, status, power, religion, control) to crumble. My life is one big unwritten DIY hipster blog post.

Touch. There's an element of power behind this big ol' piano hands, and i'm learning to wield it. Reiki is something i'm seriously considering.

singing. making babies laugh. having a smart mouth. Writing stupid songs to make someone laugh. Petting my cat. Knowing appropriate moments to ask heartfelt questions. Finding the varied ways my partners receive happiness/feel loved, and slipping those things into their lives subtly.

Communicating my feelings and needs honestly.

Knowing when a song is worth pausing all conversation to absorb.
The first things people usually notice about me
This is a weird question. I'm gonna go with hair on this one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books-
Tom Robbins
Chuck Palahnuik (of course)
jeanette winterson
william gay
inga muscio
Rainer Maria Rilke
Neil Gaiman
James McBride
Louise Erdrich
Ann Pachett
Christopher Moore
Terry Prachett
Louis De Bernies
Gabriel Garcia Marquez
books that combine prose and science. books about birds, flowers, songs and birdsong, crafts, secrets, gardens, islands. southern gothic, broken down cars and quiet murdering in the swamp.

Music:
Sleep
Motorhead
Tom Waits
Wanda Jackson
The Be Good Tanyas
Com Truise
The Sonics
Damien Jurado
Dick Dale
The Detroit Cobras
Andrew Jackson Jihad
cocorosie,
antony and the johnsons
joanna newsom
karen dalton
jackson c. frank
First Aid Kit

food- italian. sushi. Bbq. Pizza.

film- Miyazaki. Dr. Who. Firefly. 60s sexplotation. look up Doris Wishman. Bad Girls go to Hell, Faster Pussycat Kill! Kill!
John Waters
The Cohen Brothers

Lowbrow, Weirdo, and Pop Surrealism style art.
The six things I could never do without
-The memory of the sweater Jeff Magnum was wearing at the neutral milk hotel concert.

-the weird ability to predict the future of the people I've fucked more than once.

-the combination of being genuine, intuitive, wacky, and passionate. That seems to be the grand cardinal cross that lies within.

-the adaptability and shamelessness that provides an appreciation for 3am chili dogs from 7-11, and also the love for vegan cooking. i'm ready for anything.

(Except instant mashed potatoes. If the apocalypse happens, and that's my only food source, shoot me.)

-the two little ones (11 and 3) the universe handed me, and the gifts that come along with them. (one of my favorites is the
Automatic Bullshit Filter being a single parent provides. Weeds out potential drama immediately)

-cumgiggles
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to manifest my dreams of living in a cabin, with a truck and a motorcycle. Escaping the city to live the wild hillbilly life.

non-monogamy and making it work in my life.

writing. creating art. pushing myself through therapy and processing the past to continue my growth.

that one song that is stuck in my head.

Music. Making, listening, supporting.

The ocean.

Pizza
On a typical Friday night I am
these days? Painting, writing music, dancing, reading, flirting
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cried over a lost baby duck I couldn't rescue.

last week.

So... There's that.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You can accept that,despite all previous evidence: I'm not "cool". (Nor am I "gold star", for that matter.)

you recognize that our community is .25 degrees of fuck separation, but don't give a shit.

(that being said, haaay friends! lookin good on the OKC!)

You want to give me a ride on yr motorcycle/in yr hot rod.

adventures, silliness, and laughter are in your repertoire.