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30 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:49pm
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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This is the beginning of a new chapter in my life. I don't know what's coming my way, but I can't wait. I am coming home after 12 years of being away due to college and my career. I had recently relocated to Oakland from a very tiny town that changed my life forever-physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I'll tell you more about the town later. Life threw a curve ball my way taking me home and I am bracing myself for the ride with a positive attitude. I'm looking for new friends who are down to have a cup of coffee, discuss politics, social justice issues, or the latest episode of breaking bad or orange is the new black. I love cuddling, preferably as the big spoon, but I tend to try anything once.

I do better with women who are passionate, free thinkers, open-minded, progressive, educated, feminist, democrat, artistic, humorous, and compassionate. There's no room for homophobia or racism in my life-and there can't be any in yours.

I like to dance, play music, go hiking or to the gym, try new restaurants, catch a flick, camp, fish, shop, have some wine at the beach, play a friendly, grab a beer at a pub with some pool or darts, or cuddle on the couch.

I work with children and I love it. Babies love me, and so do puppies. I'm a genuine, curious, honest, and passionate person looking for meaningful connections.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After many years of government work, I have joined the private sector health care system as a clinical social worker. I do miss public work, and will likely end up back there.

I have a bachelor's degree from UC Riverside. In 2010, I graduated with a Master's Degree in Social Work with a focus on Public Child Welfare. I hope pursue a doctoral degree sometime in the near future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking and using the grill! I'm also good at being a learner, being social, having a good time, handling crisis, and completing tasks in short deadlines. I am an ENTJ according to Jung, born a leader...I'm competitive and determined. I kick ass at Settlers of Catan and most card games. I do well with physical activity and most sports-soccer player/fanatic from a young age. I'm an expert in making others feel welcomed and wanted. I'm great at giving... ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My accent shoes. I love red shoes and patent leather with my fitted suits. My hair, my fancy ties/tie clips, my watches, or my sunglasses.

They will soon be noticing my intricate tie knots. I've been practicing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: pedagogy of the oppressed, the borderlands, don't think of an elephant. peel my love like an onion. three little words. the boy who was raised as a dog. a child called it.

Movies: american beauty. a beautiful mind. mean girls. white chicks. y tu mama tambien. amores perros. rudo y cursi. 50 first dates. the hang over. butter.

Shows: game of thrones, mad men, parenthood, brothers & sisters, modern family, breaking bad, the wire, cops, the first 48, oitnb, girls, new girl, the big bang, forensic files.

Music: muse, shiny toy guns, silversun pickups, CA honeydrops, depeche mode, the doors, u2, yeah yeah yeahs, death cab for cutie, she wants revenge, kanye, drake, kendrick lamar, macklemore, lupe fiasco, lauryn hill, foster the people, awolnation, trey songz, a$ap rocky, nirvana, pink floyd, gypsy kings, and a ton more.

Food: thai, japanese, chinese, korean, indian, italian, mexican, jamaican...anything low in carbs, anything delicious, but no specific order.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. family.
2. my besties.
3. galaxy note III
4. apple computer.
5. education.
6. memories.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to help people. How to be a better person.
Recently: Which doctoral program to apply for.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm hanging with friends, having a drink, headed to a live music show, trying new foods, or relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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1. I have a leopard print baby flat iron, which I've used. I'll consider letting you borrow it.

2. I find it a turn off when I see someone's profile and they reply "very selectively," especially when they have nothing but looks to offer.
You should message me if
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-I message you and/or you are smart, sexy, open-minded, and driven to succeed and you don't judge a book by it's cover, especially when it's shorter than the book.

-You want to tell me a story.
-You're a social worker.
-You're an activist of some sort.
-You want to know how many activism awards I have, and what for.
-You know the difference between feminisms (third world, multicultural, Chicana, western, etc.) and want to engage in a discussion about them.
-You want prove or disprove any gender theory.
-You might consider being my little spoon.
-You're not afraid of a challenge or a little competition.
-You want to be my workout buddy.
-You want to try a new restaurant with me.
-You play music or sing and want to jam.
-You like tattoos and piercings.
-You want to inform me of a grammatical error.
-You have a question.
-Or an answer for that matter.
-You're cool and have room for a new friend/partner.