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yagruma

60 Cambridge, MA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 48–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 8
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm an original thinker with a sharp mind and a rich imagination, artistic, perceptive, generous and warm. I'm a writer, visual artist, historian, mixed-heritage, multicultural, bilingual, feminist and radical with a warm heart and luscious body. I'm looking for a life mate, and up for playmates while I'm seeking her/him. Nature is a deep source of joy for me, as is art-making, strong friendship, good conversation, and the activities of the ALBA countries of Latin America. My spiritual life is strong, eclectic, magical and very much my own.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
As I said, I'm a writer, a visual artist, and a historian, all of it independent. I see the world in great peril from out of control greed and individualism, and I work to keep opening up a sense of possibility, that there are other ways to live and to organize human societies. History is a great reserve of lessons and hope, and I mine it for material. My radicalism is central to my life. I can't imagine a long term lover who isn't also a comrade.

Day to day I spend more time thinking, reading, listening to music, talking and daydreaming than actually writing, because that's how I work.

I also make art, grow vegetables and pay attention to trees, weather, birds and moon phases.

[I have a second one where I am much more explicit about my disabilities & chronic illness. (kripsickpoet) I plan to merge them soon, but haven't yet.]
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Improvising creative solutions, friendship, seeing the big picture, understanding how things are connected, appreciating color, supporting people I care about, wheat free cookery, fighting fair, giving people great presents, communicating, asking questions, finding things to do with fresh lemons, telling stories, finding things to treasure and appreciate in people, and telling them about it. Oh, yeah, and I'm a really good writer, and increasingly good visual artist. Check out my journal entries here.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm engaging, articulate, warm and open. I'm passionate about a lot of things, curious about many more, know a lot of history and geography, and may very well be hand-sewing something.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Amy Tan's The Hundred Secret Senses, Louise Erdrich's The Antelope Wife and The Master Butcher's Singing Club, Starhawk's The Fifth Sacred Thing, most Orson Scott Card, Jane Austen, Julia Alvarez, especially In the Time of the Butterflies and Yo!, Barbara Kingsolver's Prodigal Summer and Pigs in Heaven, Geraldine Brooks' People of the Book, Laurie King's Sherlock Holmes/Mary Russell mysteries, Sherman Alexie's Rservation Blues, all of Vandana Shiva's books, Galeano's Open Veins of Latin America, Clive Ponting's A Green History of the World, Norman Doidge's The Brain That Changes Itself, the poetry of Naomi Shihab Nye, Pablo Neruda, Nicolas Guillen, Mario Benedetti, Adrienne Rich, Mary Oliver, Irena Klepfisz, Bertolt Brecht, Martin Espada.

Movies/TV: West Wing, The Waiting List, Divided We Fall, I Capture the Castle, Sense & Sensibility, the old Star Trek movies, Across the Universe, Wives & Daughters, Gosford Park, Sweet Land, Sarah Plain & Tall, Good Will Hunting, Mona Lisa Smiles, Lone Star and almost everything else by John Sayles, Strawberry & Chocolate, Iron Jawed Angels, Daniel Deronda, Big Fish, Foyle's War, Second Sight (detective series,) The Last Detective, The Namesake, Roseanne. I have a low tolerance for violence, and for humor that's based on mockery or stereotypes.

Food: organic, wheat & dairy free, lots of veggies. Thai & sushi for treats. Or fried platano maduro.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
comrades
trees
rain/ocean/river--moving water
people to love
fresh, organic vegetables
beauty both natural and handmade
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to transform alienated selfishness into connected solidarity
whatever writing is brewing at the moment
the people I care about
the ecosystem I live in
the fabrics, threads, photographs, beads and stories with which I make art
what to cook for my next healthy meal
how to use modern technology to locate magical connection, lifelong friends and true love.
Living in these challenging, constantly changing bodies of ours.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no typical Friday night. I work for myself, so weekends and weekdays aren't that different, except on Fridays sometimes I light shabbas candles. Home watching a video or sewing or making art; out to dinner with friends, taking a class, doing co-counseling, listening to music. If I'm lucky, my daughter could call. Or rain could be drumming on the roof. Or a friend might drop in via Skype. Or I might get inspired and go into creative trance and work out the next bit of writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
after loathing pink as a little girl, I have grown to love it.

I spent two years in a wheelchair after a stroke. I can walk now, thanks to Cuban medicine, but some days there's pain, and often fatigue. I love wilderness, and get out in it whenever I can, but I can't hike for hours, carry a backpack or climb mountains.
You should message me if
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You're intrigued, attracted, excited, moved, more than idly curious. You're engaged in some way with changing the world, not just watching it.

Extra points for the men: If you were raised by a feminist grandmother or have a lot of books by women on your favorites list.

Extra points for everyone if you speak Spanish, find strong, smart women delightful, do not require athleticism in a partner, and sing in the shower.