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52 Ashland, OR Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:16am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Finally got some pics posted...

1962 Roadster. Well kept but has seen some open road. Rugged, comfortable on and off the trail. Built for easy handling, with creative styling. Cleans up good. Plenty of good miles left with many recent upgrades. Ok, enough with the car metaphor...

Intuitive, humor-bound adventurist
Quiet, sensitive listener
Playful friend
Shameless self-promoter

Confident and want that in a partner/friend

What does it for me:
Hiking, ocean, play, sensuality, good food, any live music, cooking, making art, solving puzzles of any kind, good coffee

Must haves - honesty, direct communication, trust, playfulness

Life is for learning; I learn most from my daughters and close friends

Future interests - shifting my career overseas, travel

Currently public administrator

Former licensed massage therapist; connective and deep tissue, primarily; seems a life time ago
What I’m doing with my life
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Career professional - continuing to learn and grow
Setting up my own home and art space
Always learning to be the best dad I can be
Hitting the gym
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
putting people at ease
problem solving tough communications
The first things people usually notice about me
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Bed room eyes behind the glasses
out there sense of humor
good listener
Built like a fireplug; weights and judo with some shift towards the middle :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I an an eclectic.
Books - Jonathan and Faye Kellerman, Harry Potter (yeah, I said it), crime dramas, detective novels, humor, technical manuals, any thing how-to
Movies - samurai films, gritty crime, comedy, foreign films, indie, any film that shows personal/spiritual growth
Music - from country to rock, opera to classical, world beat to rave, rockabilly to bluegrass
Food - Been vegetarian for many years, love to cook, branching out into seafood
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughters
my sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am fairly task oriented; whatever the task/puzzle/problem of the week and potential solutions might be. I can be a bit obsessive unless I watch myself :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking an elaborate meal or packing the car for camping or zoning from an exhausting week with popcorn and a video
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
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