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49 Kew Gardens, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:31pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English, Sign Language

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My self-summary
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Loving, bright, masculine, fully sorted, with a sexy edge, a giving nature, a cool head and a warm heart. 165, strong build, disease-free, dented but not damaged by life. No matter what fate throws at me, I limit myself to one carry-on, no checked baggage.

Hardwired for intimacy, communication and passion, so romantics bring it on - but I'm definitely not a starter kit, fellas: I swim in the deep end, with no desire to play lifeguard to advanced beginners.
What I’m doing with my life
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A four-day work week as a medical professional allows me to feel productive in, and beneficial to, the world, while leaving me three days to devote time and energy to the other, less clinical factions of my life. Work doesn't come home with me - I strive to be present wherever I am, whatever I'm doing.
I’m really good at
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Writing. Loving. Problem solving. Sex. Reading the unspoken needs of dogs and cats. Graphic design. Piano. Communicating. Bringing order to chaotic situations, remaining objective. Hearing, even in silence. Coming up with that elusive word that's on the tip of your tongue. Making you laugh. Making you cry.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The smile, since I was a kid. I'm also told that my eyes are on fire when I'm really interested in someone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a total throwback in almost every way. Books: GENTLEMAN'S AGREEMENT, THE FRONT RUNNER, TEN LITTLE INDIANS are favorites, but my passion is biographies. Films: MEET ME IN ST. LOUIS, MURDER ON THE ORIENT EXPRESS, AN AMERICAN IN PARIS, ORDINARY PEOPLE, THE BEST YEARS OF OUR LIVES, all things Wyler, Hitchcock or Vincente Minnelli. Music: Keely Smith, Doris Day and many other vocalists from the golden era, symphonic soundtracks from the 1940s-1970s... Food: Strict vegetarian, but no issues with people eating or cooking meat around me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... how ready I am for something spectacular. I want a live-wire sexual charge, an uncanny meeting of minds, and an emotional connection that makes us impenetrable to outside forces.

One thing I've learned is that the people in my life must be nurturing - otherwise I start to drip fuel. My guy has to be able to water my plant just as I water his. I thrive with people who are outgoing, warm, articulate and transparent, and dating has shown me how challenging it is to find all four in one place. I'm trying to be less of a moving target these days. I know what I want. But what I want might surprise you...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday is my day off, so I might find myself anywhere. But what makes me happiest? Give me dinner, good company, shared laughter, a classic movie and the joy of being in my home, with my dog, my cats, my guy. That's what I call peace of mind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A broken leg wouldn't slow me down.

(Ten points if you can break the code on this one.)
You should message me if
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you're smoke-free, drug-free, cologne-free, you walk like a man, don't use the word 'awesome' ... and your heartbeat has been steadily accelerating as you read this profile...