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49 M Kew Gardens, NY

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English, Sign Language

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My self-summary
Loving, bright, masculine, fully sorted, with a sexy edge, a giving nature, a cool head and a warm heart. 165, strong build, disease-free, dented but not damaged by life. No matter what fate throws at me, I limit myself to one carry-on, no checked baggage.

Hardwired for intimacy, communication and passion, so romantics bring it on - but I'm definitely not a starter kit, fellas: I swim in the deep end, with no desire to play lifeguard to advanced beginners.
What I’m doing with my life
A four-day work week allows me to feel productive in, and beneficial to, the world, while leaving me three days to devote time and energy to the other factions of my life.

One thing I've learned is that the people in my life must be nurturing - otherwise I start to drip fuel. To do what I do every day, my guy has to be able to water the plant as I water his. But work doesn't come home with me. I strive to be present wherever I am, whatever I'm doing.
I’m really good at
Writing. Loving. Problem solving. Sex. I cover all bases in bed with skill - totally depends on what a guy inspires in me. I could thrive full-time as either a top or bottom. Graphic design. Piano. Communicating. Bringing order to chaotic situations, remaining objective. Hearing, even in silence. Coming up with that elusive word that's on the tip of your tongue. Making you laugh. Making you cry.
The first things people usually notice about me
The smile, since I was a kid. I'm also told that my eyes are on fire when I'm really interested in someone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a total throwback in almost every way. Books: GENTLEMAN'S AGREEMENT, THE FRONT RUNNER, TEN LITTLE INDIANS are favorites, but my passion is biographies. Films: MEET ME IN ST. LOUIS, MURDER ON THE ORIENT EXPRESS, AN AMERICAN IN PARIS, ORDINARY PEOPLE, THE BEST YEARS OF OUR LIVES, all things Wyler, Hitchcock or Vincente Minnelli. Music: Keely Smith and many other vocalists from the golden era, symphonic soundtracks from the 1940s-1970s... Food: Strict vegetarian, but no issues with people eating or cooking meat around me.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... how ready I am for something spectacular. I want a live-wire sexual charge, an uncanny meeting of minds, and an emotional connection that makes us impenetrable to outside forces.

Where dating is concerned, I'm trying to be less of a moving target these days. I know what I want. But what I want might surprise you...
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday is my day off, so I might find myself anywhere. But what makes me happiest? Give me dinner, good company, shared laughter, a classic movie and the joy of being in my home, with my dog, my cats, my guy. That's what I call peace of mind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A broken leg wouldn't slow me down.

(Ten points if you can break the code on this one.)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're smoke-free, drug-free, cologne-free, you walk like a man, don't use the word 'awesome' ... and your heartbeat has been steadily accelerating as you read this profile...