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yayareafan

53 M Alameda, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:12pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Laid back single Dad for the last 5+ years. Work freelance so have lots of free time, travel some, like being able to work on beaches a few times a year (and go home to Hawaii) so it's pretty good as far as this work thing continues.
I like being back here. Heavy music scene, and I just so happen to love all kinds of music. I seem to go out several times a month (or week) depending on who's playing where, or if I just want to get out. I guess I do like to have a good time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At first, I was forced to get used to the idea of working less...but now realize this is the way I like it! Enjoying taking things easy, but not lazy by any means. Live Aloha.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring out things? Keeping calm and collected under pressure, that's what I've been told. Going with the flow...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes? Some have said I'm on the slimmer side but I don't know, just trying to stay healthy. I try to do gym or something 4 times a week.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like Rock, Jazz, Alternative, a lot of different music. I can go from a punk rock show to jazz at Yoshis. Small clubs like New Parish, Sweetwater, Brick and Mortar, Independent, Boom Boom Room. Fox and Fillmore. Also, I have been to the theater, opera and ballet. Pandora/Spotify, Daily/Colbert/ PBS, Sports. Comedians in Cars getting coffee. Louie CK. WTF. Love movies too, indie/foreign/ and blockbuster.
I have been reading Murakami lately as he reminds me of Carver. I read Robert Reich's column regularly nowadays.
Regarding the somewhat importance of food around here-- I eat pretty much anything, and enjoy it all. Yes I do.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My health
My kid/adults and family
iPhone/computers/etc.
Music and Literature
Movies/Films
Sports, baseball mostly
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the future will be for my kids. And everybody else.
Ok, it's not all consuming.
A little bit about what/where/who's in my future
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating and drinks out, listening to live music, and dancing (solo even bc I have no date). Or at home with books, netflix, etc. Or working, depending on the job. Basically trying to have fun, and not just on Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am shy still
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 43–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you like music and seeing live music. You like movies, books, what's happening around us of course, but not in a tv news way...I have too much history with that medium... I do like sports too but I'm not all consumed by it, unless the Giants, As or any of the local teams are doing well