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55 Alameda, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 43-56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:47pm
Asian, Hispanic / Latin
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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Laid back, single for several years now, with older son (roommate?) still home. Work freelance so have lots of free time, last year I traveled around for work, which was awesome. I was able to work on beaches mostly, which is like home to me as I'm originally from Hawaii. I don't work a M-F, 9-5, but I do like the work when I do. I am not super busy anymore and am looking for likewise.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying taking things easy, but not lazy by any means. Live Aloha. If you can understand what I mean, we should click pretty well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring out things? Keeping calm and collected under pressure, that's what I've been told. Going with the flow...but taking charge when necessary.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes? Some have said I'm on the slimmer side but I don't know, just trying to stay healthy. I try to do gym or something 3 times a week. But sometimes I need to make that up :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like Rock, Jazz, Alternative, a lot of different music. I can go from a punk rock show to jazz at Yoshis. Small clubs like New Parish, Sweetwater, Boom Boom Room. Fox and Fillmore. Also, I have been to the theater, opera and ballet. Pandora/Spotify, Daily/Colbert/ PBS, Sports. Comedians in Cars getting coffee. Louie CK. WTF. Love movies too, indie/foreign/ and blockbuster.
I have been reading Murakami lately as he reminds me of Carver. I read Robert Reich regularly.
Regarding the somewhat importance of food around here-- I eat pretty much anything, and enjoy it all.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My health
My kid/adults and family
Music and Literature
Sports, baseball mostly, Giants and Warriors!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the future will be for my adult kids. And everybody else.
Ok, it's not all consuming.
A little bit about what/where/who's in my future
Will I ever be able to live back in HI again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating and drinks out, listening to live music, or a movie. Or at home with books, netflix, etc. Or working, depending on the job. Basically trying to have fun, and not just on Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am shy still
You should message me if
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You like music and love seeing music, and maybe dancing. You'd like to just have a drink and a chat.
One thing that strikes me is how busy everybody is...I'm not busy anymore and I like life this way, wondering if there are others like me!