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54 • Alameda, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 43–56
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 9:21am
- Asian, Hispanic / Latin
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Libra, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Entertainment / Media
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
I have been reading Murakami lately as he reminds me of Carver. I read Robert Reich regularly.
Regarding the somewhat importance of food around here-- I eat pretty much anything, and enjoy it all.
My kid/adults and family
Music and Literature
Sports, baseball mostly, Giants and Warriors!
Ok, it's not all consuming.
A little bit about what/where/who's in my future
Will I ever be able to live back in HI again.
One thing that strikes me is how busy everybody is...I'm not busy anymore and I like life this way, wondering if there are others like me!
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