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38 M Buena Park, CA

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Poorly), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm sure (or at least hope) those who know me best would agree that I'm a somewhat intelligent, funny, and thoughtful person. I find kindness, consideration, and sincerity to be very attractive qualities in other people and try my hardest to use such qualities in the way i treat others. I value the friendships in my life and tend to be protective of the people I care about.

That being said, I tend to show people my affections through friendly teasing and love it when I can toss good banter back and forth with someone who can really bring it out of me. Basically, I'm a smart ass albeit a very nice one.

I consider myself an introvert, and while I'm perfectly fine with being sociable, I find I prefer to experience those situations in moderation. Seriously, like I really want to go to some goofy dinner party and listen to someone drone on about the amazing trip they took to Nicaragua when they never even thought to invite me along with them. Hey, I like good times on the reg just as much as the next person. I mean, so what if they were on their honeymoon. You should feel bad too since the whole ordeal was pretty much all of your fault. Yeah.. Thanks, jerk.
What I’m doing with my life
I've pretty much worked in public service my entire life. I spend my days working outdoors in interesting places I probably would never visit otherwise.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm a somewhat tall, and easily approachable person who tends to smile a lot when speaking to someone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
As far as theoretical writing goes, I enjoy working through the thought of Hannah Arendt, Giorgio Agamben, and Jacques Derrida. On the more fictitious side of things I dig Cormac McCarthy, Salman Rushdie, Haruki Murakami, and Philip K. Dick. When I'm looking for something interesting, but not all-consuming I enjoy reading the essays of Walter Benjamin, Joan Didion, and Flannery O'Connor as well as the poetry of Langston Hughes, Alfred Tennyson, and Mahmoud Darwish. Also, everything that I ever needed to know in life I learned from reading a few Bukowski poems.

My usual musical suspects include the Jesus and Mary Chain, Times New Viking, Yo La Tengo, the Magnetic Fields, PJ Harvey, Tom Waits, Sonic Youth, Guided By Voices, Blonde Redhead, Michael Gira/ Swans, Jonathan Richman/ Modern Lovers, Toots and the Maytals. Rolling Stones, Nina Simone, Desmond Dekker, Shannon & the Clams, Jimi Hendrix, Neko Case, Grass Widow, My Bloody Valentine, Explosions in the Sky, Talulah Gosh, Holly Golightly, and pretty much everything that Phil Spector put out during his whole 'Wall of Sound' thing.

When it comes to film, I pretty much dig the usual fare. My favorites include Crimes and Misdemeanors, Sideways, Wendy and Lucy, Moon, There Will Be Blood, Last Tango in Paris, Million Dollar Baby, Contempt, No Country For Old Men, the Elephant Man, Blazing Saddles, Caddyshack, Terminator, Repo Man, and shitty 80s flicks.

When it comes to food, my family is Italian, so over the years my grandparents taught me how to prepare dishes from recipes that have been handed down for generations. Puoi parlare lentamente? Non so dove vivo io!
The six things I could never do without
Imagination, laughter, creativity, curiosity, and chemistry.

That's only five, but I'm pretty low maintenance, so whatevs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Pretty much just doing the usual. Otherwise, I dig going to see bands, having a drink with friends, or just hanging out at home working on music or whatever art project i happen to be in the middle of. .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a pretty good guy. I don't really say things about myself like that too often because it feels sort of strange that I would need to, but I imagine that here would be the place to do so if I ever were to. Which I just did. In the first sentence of this paragraph.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're an overall stand up person who can laugh at the the slight awkwardness of a first date. I tend to get along with people who don't feel that being 'nice' is a cliche.