I'm just your average everyday guy who just happens to like the others guys. I'm not into the whole gay things, and not one for the dramas and brain games. I don't take drugs, don't smoke and don't go to clubs and bars (except my friends asked me).
I think I'm very laid back and enjoy stay a home watching videos, cuddling on the couch and having one beer or a glass of wine with my future special someone.
On the other hand, I love doing exercise and hanging out with friends. I enjoy swimming, biking, running and squash. I used to join archery club. I did not notice that all the games I like have to compete with the others untill my friends told me. I would love to find my match, which is why I am here after all. But this does not mean I am picky, that's because I have been there a couple of times and I have learned from my past relationships. These memories taught me a lot and I personally thank these guys came across my roads, which helps me to know what I want.
I would love to find a guy, lifetime special one, who enjoy showing me and teaching me more sports (if he loves sports). BTW, for me, hot is ONS material, sext is partner material, I prefer later. A little extra makes someone more sexier, but it is just personal preference, and it's not a must. Also, this does not mean you are a couch potato. It is important to keep healthy since I want to share our life as longer as I can and I would enjoy your company on the way. The sexiest part would be having my man stands beside me when thousands are against me. :-)
I am not good at planning things, so he wants to take the job, it is a bonus (it is a joke for the bonus part, ask me). Honestly, I would love to do something together, because it means so much to me.
Someone that cares about the others' feeling, and someone can be there waiting for me through the bad or good times (we have to face the truth, we all have ups and downs now and again.) someone that really knows what is a True relationship. Someone that believes in monogamy is a must for a relationship. Last but not the least, someone that I can look at from across the room when we were just doing our own things. Someone will show me a smile face which makes me thinking that I am so lucky to this guy arond me.
I am kind of old fashion guy, I have grindr but I seldom login, except I am really down and have to kill time away, for instance waiting for my flight. I miss these old days when my parents dated. No emails, no texts. They met first, talked and started to know each other better. Finally they built one family. When something went wrong, they fix it. Of course they have disagreements, but they never give up. It is a true LTR for me. It is also a real learning process of life. Find the one who knows what he wants, knows how to fight instead of giving up.
We Keep trying, fighting, when darkness comes, try harder, fight harder. We learn, we grow old together, and we fall in love deeper and deeper.