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32 F San Marcos, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 11
Native American, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Ancient Greek (Poorly), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
In 2008 I voted, and then promptly moved to NZ to volunteer for WWOOF. Which I did for a few months. And then I picked apples for poor man's wage. 7 1/2 months later I landed in the States with my clean slate and ever-growing to do list. I can drive a tractor. I climb things. I firmly believe in spirals and their symbolic and literal impact on one's life-course. I can pick a tree so fast you wouldn't know it had fruit on it. I drink nettle tea like it's going out of style. [Except that it never was in style, so that doesn't even make sense.] Being a very social hermit, getting out of the house ensues arguments within myself - Because I KNOW once I go to X, meet up with Y or swing dance at Z, I'll have a blast. The biggest efforts involve putting on shoes and makeup, two things I would rather not have in my life complicating such decisions. Try as I might, I can't stop growing or changing or learning, so you're just gonna have to put up with it. I have a weak spot for sea turtles. And colorful yarn. 80% hippie. The rest is a work in progress.

I am lions, tigers, and bears. oh. my.
What I’m doing with my life
I ran a half marathon in May 2008 - which makes me slightly insane. But suspiciously goal-oriented.

Working my way out of the box. Whatever THAT means.

I've spent the past handful of years working as a full-time nanny. This does not mean I want to have your babiez.

What I am currently doing with my life: HHP student. No, I do not want to rub your butt and yes, I do want to heal the world. ::queue MJ song for emphasis::
I’m really good at
Singing Smooth Criminal in a chipmunk voice. If you get me drunk enough, you can witness this in person.

I also won a hay-bucking contest two years in a row. That must be good for something.

Making fun of myself. It's endless entertainment, I assure you. I do imitations and everything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm notoriously awkward and poorly dressed. All day. Every day.

I mean,

"A more than passing resemblance to Tina Fey and twin Ms. Palin."

There ya go, kiddos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
movies: rain [NZ film], black cat white cat, amelie, wilbur wants to kill himself, igby goes down, juno, no country for old men, squid and the whale, etc.

shows: weeds, six feet under, wonderfalls, firefly, pushing daisies, 30 rock, modern family, blah blah.

books: extremely loud and incredibly close, love in the time of cholera, middlesex, jitterbug perfume, still life with woodpecker, to the lighthouse, great gatsby [i read it what six times and counting?], crocheting school, the reverse garbage mulch book [brilliant], animal vegetable miracle [also brilliant], not on the label [frighteningly true], the loved one, the little prince, working on the edge [if you're into king crab fishing and adrenaline] new zealand short stories and fiction.....

go ahead, judge me:

food: take away my cheese and my ice cream and you're a dead man walking.

music: a. everything but country and most rap. [excluding rap in another language - I am wildly amused with it.] my definition of country excludes bluegrass and anything folk. and these days folk is picking up many, many players. [basically i hate it when tim mcgraw-face or the like does a remake of an aerosmith song, puts a little twang in it and calls it country. thats just cheating.]
b. i tend to listen with zeal to new artists before they make it to the general public, and then stop listening when they compromise their artistic style for a sound that is more generic. I like these beginnings, but the endings make my heart so, so sad.
c. that being said, a longshort list of the recent faves: alt-j, Emily wells, drive-by truckers, tallest man on earth, ra ra riot, seabear [*swoon*], ani difranco, chris pureka, sun kil moon, bon iver, campfire OK, ray lamontagne, jenny owen youngs, be good tanyas, sean hayes, first aid kit, y la bamba, brandi carlile, laura viers, hello saferide, decemberists, feist, the weepies/deb talan, etc, etc. i take poetic lyricism seriously.
The six things I could never do without
food water and shelter kind of half off the list, so sandals, passport and two buck chuck will do just fine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
ashtanga yoga, past lives, food to cook, stories to write, my next long run, new zealand, trying to remember what i wasn't supposed to forget to do, permaculture, how fascinating people are, WWOOFing, why things are the way they are, Cuba Street, imagining the tenth dimension, what i can make with that leftover ball of yarn, living in Oregon in my bookshop/cafe/soulfood restaurant with my flat on the second floor including the iron fire escape, people's growth on their own terms, on their own schedule.

Clearly I have too much time on my hands.
On a typical Friday night I am
man, i could be anywhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i've got ten toes. there, i said it.

Also, I didn't brush my hair for a full year. see: dreads. terribly convenient while traveling.

In second grade I wrote a rap song about saving the earth. Yo.

I named my SCOBY, my bonsai and my ginkgo tree. It's easier to feel less crazy when they have names.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have the emotional tenacity of a wolfhound.

Someone, somewhere once said, "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best."

I'm a pain in the ass. I'm inconsistent, I'm inherently intuitive and chronically logical. I'm hard to pin down. Literally. I talk too much because I talk out my problems. I care too much so I get hurt. I beat to the drum of a transient. I make do with my resources, and end up making more than those who have many resources. I am fiercely independent and need a partner in crime. I am evolving, so deal with it.

Some ladies want a sweet car and a walk-in closet.

I want two acres and some goats.