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34 M Aspen, CO

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm from a little ski town in Colorado, and was in the bay area the last 3 years. I run a non-profit dealing with intercultural and inter-religious dialogue and looking at the power that habituated narratives have on influencing social systems. But I make time for skiing and tennis. Generally stoked on life.

I love most outdoor activities, and love being in nature. Once had a blog called Feminist Man. I was raised in the mountains, have also been lucky enough to spend a lot of time at the ocean as a kid, and throughout the years. Living the ranch life these days, and have about the best dog in the world, his name is Kingston. The self-advertising thing is a little weird. Great Guy+More!
What I’m doing with my life
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Pretty much trying to do my part to save the world, before I retire to Hawaii to grow mangoes, or head back to Aspen to be a ski-bum. (oh, I did that).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
scuba diving, being pretty good at tennis and ultimate frisbee, hiking, reading, thinking, skiing, improvisational cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Come on, really? How is a person supposed to know what the first things other people notice about them is? Have you ever actually asked anyone this question? I suppose if I was someone else, the first things I would notice about me is my smile and laugh, they usually don't stay hidden long.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Great Expectations and most Dickens except for David Copperfield, the Electric Cool Aid Acid Test, The Dao De Ching, pretty much anything written by Vonnegut. Movies: Bottle Rocket, the Royal Tenenbaums, and most Wes Anderson stuff, Ferris Buellers' Day Off, the Hours, Groundhog Day, I "Heart" Huckabees. Music: Culture, Israel Vibration, New Order, Lee Perry, and sometimes I do love some Willie Nelson. I DJ'd for a couple of years on a college radio station, so there is also plenty of interesting, strange, underground music to get lost in once in awhile when I need a break from the roots.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hiking, Books, Trees, Friends, Hope, Dreams.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what poor myths we are living in; how to improve them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on the Friday. Live music is usually a good one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Once after pretty much telling my whole life story to a psychiatrist, and I mean I told him the meaning of life and everything, and I thought he was sitting there scribbling detailed notes on my profundity onto his little notepad; I happened to glance down on my way out and saw that all he had written down were four words: "Moved around a lot." Se la vie.
You should message me if
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you have a good heart, are honest, and caring, (and I know that sounds sappy). But seriously, if you are a good person, then say hello. Oh, and if you play tennis that's a double super bonus.