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yesterdaysashes

19 / F / bisexual / Available

San Diego, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Poorly)

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I am spontaneous, excitable, and trustworthy.

My Self-Summary

READ MY WHOLE PROFILE BEFORE YOU MESSAGE ME. Or at least the "you should message me if". I'm so tired of guys looking for action. Pay attention please.

What can I say? You really have to talk to me to have any understanding of the full veracity of my personality. I'm smart, but not pretentiously so. I really appreciate a good sense of humor. I try to stay grounded and not get caught up in what other people think of me. I'm very steadfast in some of my beliefs and a big supporter of equal rights for all people and a proponent for the fair treatment of animals. I'm a poultritarian--I only eat chicken or turkey for meat, although I once in a while I get a hearty craving for some In-N-Out...mmm.

I'm really social and will talk to random people at cafes or on the street. I'm a Unitarian Universalist (uua.org) Pagan for the most part, but not very religious about it. I think both genders are really sexy, and I consider myself pansexual, though I don't really like labeling orientation and I've been in both kinds of relationships. I'm really open with things like sexuality and I highly value communication. I recently decided I need to get healthy and have quite taken to the gym as well as eating lots of fruits and veggies. It feels great =)

I hate my username, I made this account when I was 14 just to take tests and now I so regret it! I don't want to delete the account though...just know that if I could change it, my username would be something like "EricaStrikesAgain" or something equally awesome.

Some things I love a lot: singing, hazelnut lattes from independent coffee shops, the rain, nature, writing, reading, nerds and geeks, playing piano, photography, doing yoga, having sex, sleeping, driving without a destination. I love to sing and I'm in a 12-member a capella group at my church (www.juultones.org), and a 12-member a capella group at my college (www.myspace.com/sdsuclefs).

I'm currently in a relationship with a guy I love very much. However, it's somewhat open--he fully encourages me to continue exploring my sexuality with women and has no problem with me having a semi-serious or NSA relationship with a girl. He's awesome like that. We're also passively looking for someone to join us in a good old fashioned menage a trois. ;]

What I’m doing with my life

Who the fuck knows? Going to college at SDSU currently because that's what I was expected to do after high school, but I don't know what I want in life besides happiness and to travel. I'm thinking about a career in anywhere between environmental studies, journalism/editing, cinematography, or graphic design. (See? I'm basically fucked) Right now I'd just like to live in the now and figure the rest out later.

I’m really good at

Photography, playing piano, singing, playing with kids (cuz I'm a big kid myself). Though I wouldn't say "really good" for any of those, more like "better than average".

The first things people usually notice about me

That I'm a flamin' ginger, that I'm loud, that I say random things that sometimes no one gets, that I like to help make the decisions or take charge when no one else does, that I'm not afraid to speak my mind.

Or, y'know, my big gazangas. Hahaha.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Harry Potter (huge, huge nerd, I go to the midnight openings and dress up and such), old middle school classics like The Giver & Holes, things by Chuck Palanuik, and a bunch of random ones you've probably never heard of that I've picked up at the library and can't remember the names of.

Movies: Fight Club, Across the Universe, Rent, Atonement, some of those new comedies that are coming out that aren't pieces of crap, etc.
Awesome Disney movies that I will love forever include: Beauty and the Beast, The Emperor's New Groove, The Little Mermaid, Aladdin, The Lion King, and Finding Nemo (that was probably Pixar though).

Music: my collection=very varied. Weezer, Sufjan Stevens, Red Hot Chilis, System of a Down, Bright Eyes, Eisley, The Hush Sound, Dresden Dolls, Cake, Brand New, Corinne Bailey Rae, Rammstein, Death Cab, Say Anything, and a shitload more I'm forgetting.

Food: I LOVE FOOD. Haha, that's way too hard. Chocolate is probably at the top of the list though, as well as really good mac n cheese and watermelon.

The six things I could never do without

1. My friends.
2. Music, both listening to and making.
3. Being around nature, whether it's my betta fish Charlie or my window plants Lola and Molly; or walking through the deep woods in the crisp air of autumn.
4. Being ridiculously poetic sometimes ^
5. Laughing; humor in general.
6. Love..../sex.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Who I am, boobies, sex, s'mores, politics, people that I love, music, how I can make people happy, how I can keep myself happy, when lunch is, where's the _____(scissors, trolley, homework, chocolate), how I could really use some good coffee, what I should do with my life.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out on the town, getting boba, sitting at home in front of the computer, curled up with a good book, at a bitchin kickback, watching Ghost Whisperer =P.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm not a very private person. I'll pretty much answer you honestly if you ask me about pretty much anything.

You should message me if

You're not a dick, you think I sound fun and want to talk or hang out, or you're a cute girl who wants to maybe make out sometime. ;]

Pleeease don't message me if you're a guy and you want to be anything more than friends. I have a boyfriend that I love very much, and I'm tired of getting messages from creepers or people who obviously don't read my whole profile. Thank you.