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yguy82

30 / M / Gay / Single

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:46am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Passionate level-headed Philadelphian. Love the arts, yoga, film, good food, opera (yes...), reading, and writing. Trying to be the best I can be. I get a thrill out of artistic and philosophical experiences. I am extremely loyal and will speak the truth, even when you might not want to hear it ;-) I am learning more and more each day to live from my intuition, to love myself for who I am, really. Want to know more? Ask me.
What I’m doing with my life
Professor of English/Communications at a community college, son, brother, friend. Attempting to start up a higher education LGBTQ diversity consulting biz---stay tuned (check out www.bryanbuttler.com for more details).
I’m really good at
Making people laugh, biting sarcasm, vegetarian cooking, creating original libations, blogging, downward facing dogs...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Grey Gardens, Wit, August: Osage County, A Separation, Samara, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, Pina
The six things I could never do without
Starbucks, yoga, good face care, clean sheets, gum, Smart Water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Education, the successes and struggles of my family and friends, how to live honestly and truthfully, how to create (and creating).
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting rush tickets to the orchestra or, lately, to the Met Opera, watching a movie, happy hour, coffee, catching up with good friends (I can count on one hand who these folks are)...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My stupid mouth gets me in trouble.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
...you can appreciate the following:

"Following your intuition ain’t always an act of grace — it can be a total grind. You will have to burn things. You might sweat, toil and dig dig dig to do what you know must be done. Following your intuition might call on you to do the hardest thing you’ve ever done in your life.

Here’s the thing: If you can get down with that realist’s possibility, then you’ll have greater access to the strength required to turn your inner whispers into your opera of change.
Courage, my love"--Danielle LaPorte