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yhare83

30 / F / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:15am
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I love to laugh--at myself as much as at others. I believe in social justice and radical tolerance, so I do take some things seriously, but I tend to dwell on the brighter side of life. Happiness is a choice after all.

My passion is writing. I'm currently working on a young adult novel, and I am lucky enough to have a great job where I am surrounded by creative people while I work on it. When I am not working (or writing) I'm always trying to learn something new, whether it's how to knit a blanket, make the perfect bolognese or use an SLR camera.

I am sort of a foodie, but I can also enjoy a good beer and a burger. I love to bike and swim and just in general move, but I always make time to read and catch a favorite show. I love to explore our beautiful city, but I would also love to stay in with that special person.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in administration and I write in my free time. Ideally at a certain point I will be able to support myself solely through writing and teaching.
I’m really good at
cooking and fixing things. I'm the youngest of seven and I think the only way my parents could handle so many kids was to teach us all to be useful and self-sufficient.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my hair. It's nonstop awesome.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Harry Potter Books, Holes, A Walk to Remember, The Princess Bride, The Stephanie Plum Books, Road to Memphis, The Great Fire, Lord of the Rings

Movies: Primal Fear, Before Sunrise, Independence Day (really any disaster movies, but that's my favorite), Lord of the Rings Trilogy

Shows: Parks and Recreation, 30 Rock, West Wing (still), Arrested Development, Firefly, In Plain Sight, Grey's Anatomy
The six things I could never do without
-A book (whichever one I'm reading)
-My family
-My friends
-God
-My music
-My computer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sometimes I think about irreverent things like Zombies. I'm 99.9% certain that a zombie apocalypse is an impossibility, but that .1% keeps me up nights. Mostly, I think about more practical things like how I can get the characters of my story to do what I want or how I can have a positive impact on the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
at the movies or at a bar with friends.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-You're nice and fun, and you like other nice and fun people