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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:08pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I love it when everyone is dressed up and tipsy. I like conversations with witty and charming people (such as yourself), 60s-70s soul & r&b, and playing music. I live simply but like nice things. And I go sailing whenever I get the chance.

Let's see, what else would you want to know? I don't rock climb, camp, or go weak in the knees for REI gear. I will go weak in the knees for vintage dresses (on you), pithy observations, and ocean views.
What I’m doing with my life
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Oh, you know.

I work—as a copywriter. That means I write for marketing, advertising, and brand strategy. Sometimes I name things. It's not saving the world, but it's not making bombs. Plus, it's a lot of fun and proof that English lit degrees have a practical application.

I play music: in bands, with friends, on my own. Bass and ukulele mostly. (I guess I have a thing for four strings. If you think that says something about me, I'd love to hear your theory.)

I sail: and I bought an old wooden sailboat last year. When I tell people they look at me like I have cancer. And then ask when I'm taking them out on it.

In the interstitial times, I like trying delicious whiskeys, relaxing with friends (I have good ones, and I hang on to them), watching TV, reading. Simple stuff. But occasionally (well, regularly) I get the urge do something ridiculously decadent, or just plain ridiculous.

Oh, yes, I travel and use my passport almost every year—sometimes more. I like: European capitals, tropical beaches, Mediterranean climates, and things I haven't seen before. I'd like to add some castles and moors, more South America (went to Buenos Aires a few years ago and want to go back), somewhere snowy with northern lights, sailing in Croatia, and Bali. Also taking suggestions.

I have dreams and goals. I'm not going to talk about them here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling jokes, persevering, writing, losing my keys, finding room for improvement (double-edged sword, that one), figuring out songs on the ukulele, forgetting names, remembering faces, sleeping in, looking on the bright side, not noticing when I'm being hit on, procrastinating, putting my foot in my mouth, silently impersonating Mick Jagger, impersonating a zombie (I have not yet tried impersonating a zombie Mick Jagger).

Other stuff too but I’ve hit my limit of humble-brag for one day.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My vestigial tail.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sam Cooke, Foucault's Pendulum, Secretary, Laphroaig, manchego, lamb, the Velvet Underground, Mavis Staples, roast chicken, Archer, creme caramel, Walking Dead, The Razor's Edge, La Vie en Rose (the movie and the song), Willie Nelson, Game of Thrones, Chopin's Nocturnes, Doctor Who (David Tennant more than Matt Smith, if you care about such things), dark chocolate truffles, Mad Men, and steamed mussels with French bread and dry white wine on hot days.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't find this question helpful, so I'd like to share with you one of the greatest moments of my life:
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, work, my boat, cats. Among other things mundane and esoteric. Mostly I try to think about what's in front of me. It's harder than you'd think.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At happy hour with work friends, heading home for a disco nap before going out, playing a show, leaving for the weekend, or vegging out with a movie or tv show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I own two dinghies.
You should message me if
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... you can hold up your end of the conversation.