I am a very friendy "normal" girl / woman with the exception on my views of love and relationships.

I am a very realistic individual. (Something that a lot of the people on these sites don't seem to be.) I don't expect many (if any) girls to want to date a married woman.

So, don't think that just because you email me you will somehow be "marked" as a polygamist! You know... people CAN be friends.

Also, I find it important I get this off my chest. There are a LOT (99%) of people out there that are on these sites "looking for friendship or love" when in fact they are swingers looking for a play toy. They have ruined my chances for finding a friend (or more), as most women think dating a married woman makes them the disposable "third wheel". I would never hold one person above or below another, and I am NOT here trying to "bed you" with my husband...*deep breath* Ok, sorry I exploded :) I just get frustrated when I get lumped in with the other 99% of couples!!!

So, that is why I have myself listed as single for those of you thinking "Ah-Ha.. Liar!"

I have been married happily for 15 years. During that time I have found that the world has may different options out there people that are still "normal" but just dont subscribe to the cookie-cutter life that everyone tell us we have to live.

For the life of me, I can't figure out why I can't find a girlfriend for myself. Years ago, Bi sexual girls were like unicorns... now we're everywere! But now it seems that most girls are into this "open relationship" or "swinging" thing.

I am not asking you to say "i do" as soon as we meet... but what I am looking for is not the kind of girl that is looking for a threesome just for fun, or is just bi sexual for the moment to "experiment" with it. Believe it or not, threesomes are easy to find if you know where to look, but that's not me.

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• bipaganfreek

Forty years ago, husbands could work 40 hours a week and support a family of four. They could afford two cars and a nice house with a white picket fence.

We have all been conditioned to believe that marriage has to be one way and one way only (The way it was 40 years ago!). But this is not true. It’s time to change the rules. What if we held the same values from fifty years ago about people of different races… what if we paid women and men differently based on their sex?

Relationships just don’t work the way they used to, so I tried something new. I found that with a little bit extra in my life, I was happier than most "normal" people out there.

Look at the countless people looking here and everywhere for the perfect relationship… and it’s just not out there. But yet they will bounce from marriage to marriage while pointing a finger at me... *insert pouty face here :)*

I have found that having a close friendship/romantic interest (Boys call it BROmantic now - how silly!) with another female is just what I need to complete me.

Without getting into my past too much... I had a long term "special friend" that I was with for a very long time, and last year she moved away and started a new life.

Although I am happy for her - I have found that this past year was not the same as my years of the past... and there is an empty spot that nothing else seems to be able to fill.

So, after a year - here I am!

I am great a being a housewife. I love taking care of my lovers! I like making home the kind of place it should be.
I am a great friend, and giving lover.
I feel I was put on this planet to make people happy...
You will no doubt find this odd, but I also work on Haunted Houses with my husband...
Web search Sinister Shadows and you'll find me!

People say I look very young for my age... and I act young too... so perhaps age is all in the mind.
This is the best place to mention I love hanging out playing beer pong, going to amusement parks (I have a season pass to Hershey Park) and overall having FUN.
Although I sure don't mind hanging out with people my own age, I prefer hanging out with the younger crowd.
If you are my age - please don't be the "I'm 40 and ready to retire" type!

I like 80's stuff. I enjoy watching Football (Go Chargers!) and a lot of other various programs. (Everything from Torchwood to The Office.) I love pirates, especially ones that look like Johny Depp!

My Family, Yorkie, Cell Phone, Wine, Pirates and Music

Where should I be looking? Why are there so many woman out there that want to "play" but none that acutally want to be friends? *sigh*.

Sometimes at a sports bar watching whatever game is on... sometimes at a club dancing... sometimes just sitting at home playing a board game... sometimes on this blasted computer looking...

I am an open book! Ask me anything you like. I can't figure out what to put here, other than the obvious... I practice polyamory and believe polygamy is a viable way of living.

First and formost you are female!

I am not looking for a boy, and detest playing games or dealing with people who are fake.

I have found that I get along best with people that:
* Enjoy watching football
* Like music, enjoy singing or play an instrument.
* Are comfortable wearing hoodies and going to a bar rather than a night club.
* Are older than 25... or at LEAST mature!
* Not afraid to eat cheesecake because you'll gain a few pounds.
* Sometimes consider themselves dorky or geeky

I am not looking for a 21 year old Barbi doll to play with - although Barbi Dolls are fun, the physical attraction never lasts... and then you are left with an "empty plastic toy".