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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–29
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:18am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Sales / Marketing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmm what to tell you about me? I can assure you this paragraph or two won't do me (or hopefully any human) justice it takes a lifetime to even scratch the surface of personal understanding let alone knowing another human being.

If you can't tell I'm an expressive nerd lol. Like I said I can't possibly hope to express myself fully in this short introduction so if you have questions feel free to ask. I genuinely like meeting new people, and I have been told I am an exceptional listener.

The first and most important thing to me is my relationship with Jesus Christ we hang out and talk on a regular basis. I do attend a church I have gotten to know many of the people and really appreciate our fellowship. While I label myself an avid Christ follower please understand I have friends from all walks of life. I know I'm not perfect and I don't expect anyone else to be I just hope everyday I'm a little closer to being the man God wants me to be.

Family is the second most important thing to me. I have a large family my parents have adopted quite a few children over the years. The rest of my family is spread out across the country we try to get together every few years. Aside from that I have my brother/best friend we have been through a lot together and we would do just about anything for each other.

As I said I am a nerd I play video games, study science and technology for fun, and get in heated debates with friends over fantasy topics that have no bearing on reality. I'm also a sweet, loving, and compassionate person; if I see someone who needs help I will help them.

I have been searching for what feels like an eternity, but I know God has someone special in mind for me. If you would like to get to know me please don't hesitate I love making new friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well today I'm searching for a girlfriend on okcupid lol.

I have worked a few "jobs" mostly boring stuff which is why I don't have any of those jobs.
I've come to the conclusion I'm not cut out to be an employee so i just make my own jobs.

I'm a big dreamer so when it comes to what I'm doing/want to do with my life that's a can of worms. My dream is to own several companies that run independent of me, so I can be free to travel, enjoy my friends and family, do missions work, and just live my life without being "stuck" in a 9-5.

Right now I own a small film company we make commercials, business events, weddings, anything to do with videography.
I do lots of odd jobs for people in the community, one I do allot is fixing computers I have been told several times "you should do this for a living" so I do that on the side.

As far as my spiritual walk I am a part of Salem baptist church which is a wonderful place to grow. I have come through some tough struggles and there is plenty God is still working on in me, but I am very secure in my faith and always trying to move forward. My church family at Salem has been with me through allot of it, and I don't know what I would do without them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good with computers I have always had a way with electronics, I get calls from friends and family asking me to fix stuff. True story more often than not I get greeted with oh good your here X isn't working... Yeah I'll get right on that lol.

I am good with people, and I am a natural leader I always end up in a leadership roll; plus always make friends really easily.

Bringing a smile to anyone even if they want to be mad.

I'm also a really deep thinker I try to understand the universe why gravity affects time, simple answers drive me the most crazy because they always feel incomplete. I absolutely hate yes or no questions. I'm also a bit of a psychologist I like to understand why people are the way they are what makes them tick, I have always been fascinated with criminals (not wanting to be one, just people who do bad stuff) attempting to understand what made them choose that path.

I am really competitive when I want to be, so if something is important to me, not much can stand in my way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know I haven't had the chance to meet myself...
Hopefully they notice I am genuine, and that I truly care for people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Not a book reader (but for some reason I am a book collector, go figure) I usually get sleepy when I read so I have a hard time staying with books. I do a ton of reading on my computer and I have a kindle which has helped.

Movies: I love movies! We can talk movies all day. My biggest problem is I have seen too many and get them mixed up.

I like a wide range of tv shows just depends on what I'm in the mood for.

Music: I listen to music from every genre and age all depends on where I'm at mentally; If I'm in the romantic mood it's Frank Sinatra, if I'm feeling pumped up its a little dubstep, if I'm angry its disturbed, if I need to concentrate its instrumentals. my mood totally dictates what I want to listen to, drives me nuts when my brother puts on system of a down when I'm in a good mood lol.

Food: I love food, I really like trying new things and I'll try just about anything once. I also really like verity if I went to the Mexican restaurant last week I want to go to a burger joint this week, next week will be Chinese.
I really enjoy cooking for small groups and my family I cook with my taste buds so a pinch of this and a dab of that is usually my recipe.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God is the most important thing in my life.

My family is my world they mean everything to me.
My Church family also means allot to me too.
My computer/electronics are pretty important its rare to find me without them.
Movies I love movies I watch them all the time.
Music depending on the mood I am in my music taste can change at a moments notice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Tough question I spend allot of time thinking and planning for the future. Wondering who or if I will marry and Praying for her. Contemplating the universe; stars, gravity, time & space. My brain really never shuts off.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably kicking back watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm not looking for a hookup, naughty pics, or just another date for Saturday night. I am happy to make friends, but what I'm truly interested in is another Christ follower who is ready for a real relationship not just a try on the shoe to see if it fits (aka the dating game)

Number two, you are not perfect and understand I'm not either. I don't expect my partner to have never done anything wrong or to not have flaws that will probably drive me up a wall, just be willing to hear what I have to say and be willing to correct me when I'm wrong too.

Number Three, Family means everything to you, everyone close to me understands this we have been through things that make us understand our family is worth fighting for. Like I said before I hope my match will accept my family as her own and vice versa.

Finally I am looking for that deep connection, not just we like the same music and hold hands when we go to the beach. No I want someone who is interested in me, someone who will share in my wins and fails, someone who will cheer me on, someone I can tell my deepest darkest secrets without any fear. I want that because I plan to be the same for her I want to be her best friend, the only man she runs to when she is scarred, the man who makers her feel like the princess she is.

I am at a point in my life I am ready to find a wife, start a family, and see what God has in store for the next chapter. I don't play games, or cheat, or lie, I am totally serous about wanting a lasting relationship; if this is something you are interested in let's talk.

Also I'm setup where I want to be for quite awhile, if you couldn't stand the thought of moving to where I am if we got to that point, I'm probably not right for you. I plan to travel the world, but home base will be near my family.

So if you can relate to these things please feel free to message me I'm an easy going guy; I respond to all my messages because you never know when you are going to make a new friend.

You don't have to, but it is a huge bonus if you play video games, or at least don't mind them. I play as a form of relaxation and socialization; I have friends from all over the world I play with on a regular basis. I even got a chance to meet a couple of them in Canada summer of 2014 we had a blast just hanging out. So if you are okay with this or if you like video games huge bonus.