It is always easier to nail down what we don't want rather than what we do. While I realize that everyone has a past which, to a certain degree, dictates how we live our lives and the decisions we make, I do not expect to be made a victim of your past relationship follies. If you can not make each potential relationship it's own, then maybe it's time you take a break until such a time arrives. Maybe this sounds harsh or cryptic, and for that I apologize. But I know my worth, and if you can not get past your past then we have no future.
Still with me? Good.
Connection, true connection, is ever evasive. Once it is obtained however it can make all the difference in one's life. Everyone desires to love and be loved, respect and be respected, like and be liked. Many of us take this to the extreme and put up an iron curtain of ego, humor, drunkenness, promiscuity, work, or any thing else which would give others the appearance that we have it all together. That we are confident. I want a connection that allows her to get past those things, that allows me to get past those things to what lies beneath. Only when we have shed those veils can we truly embrace what can be in a relationship.
So what am I saying? I know what I desire and I won't settle until I get the relationship that I am worth. I know that I enjoy the arts and want someone who is willing to enjoy them with me. I have always been attracted to knowledgeable, eclectic, out of the box thinkers who can and are willing to bring something new to my life. I enjoy learning about new things, new cultures, new art forms, new foods and new perspectives. An intellectual conversation with a little flirting here and there will ALWAYS be a bigger turn on than how someone looks.
Back to the cryptic. Don't waste my time if you have no goals or ambition, can't at least embrace Christian values, have pictures with stacks of money, if your job is "getting money", you have 15 children with 8 "baby daddies". Please don't waste my time if you can't speak proper English, mention the fact that you're sexy anywhere in your profile, don't have a sense of humor or can't handle sarcasm, embrace anything "ghetto" or have no bigger vision for your life than what those around you have. I promise that I am a nice, genuine, caring, funny, and great guy. I love good beer and a great comedy club. I love traveling and have a goal to attend the 2016 Olympics in Rio. I work and have a business and like to stay busy. I'm very soft spoken and tactful, but I have no problem speaking my mind when the time is right. Again, I know what I won't settle for and what I deserve. If you have any doubt that it could be you then you're probably right. However if you can show me something new, something fresh and just be genuine, maybe we could have something amazing.