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yoshoswalla

32 Lansing, MI Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 5:31pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
University
Job
Administration
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English, German

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
**Relocating to Cape Coral, Florida May 5th, 2015**

A little about her:

She should be Christian, or at the very least embrace Christian principles. She should at least enjoy the arts, if not take part in them. I'm not too picky on appearance...I'm short so if that bothers you I'm terribly sorry, can't really change it. Curves are always attractive. If you have your own sense of style and one feature (hair, eyes, etc.) that will attract attention great. Green/hazel eyes are my fave. Physical attraction is important, however your personality will make you more or less physically attractive to me. More importantly women who have their own mind, can speak/spell correct english, don't mistake being bitchy for being independent or outspoken, are tactful, and are natural philanthropists are my type. Bonus points if you have a good singing voice.

Our relationship:

In a relationship I am looking to grow. Someone who can encourage me, be by my side, and help me grow spiritually and emotionally is what I seek and need. Too many people are content with just having someone to have fun with, an activities partner, or someone who is simply nice to them. We should romance each other, like and grow to love each other. Love is not enough, but it is also a choice and it takes time. I am not looking to ever be divorced and think in most ways that is a choice that comes down to selfishness and a lack of communication. Let's talk about our issues and work through them.

It's long, I know but if you've made it this far you should definitely message me. I can't guarantee that either of us will be interested, but if it turns into a "thing" we will be amazing together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. I think that God gave us two ears for a reason. I'm good at photography for the most part. I enjoy the pictures I take. I'm good at being a friend, and I'm sure there are many other things that I'm good at, just can't think of them right now.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No idea. lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books? Nah! Reading puts me to sleep. As far as music, just about anything. I'm not much of a fan of country music, or anything hard core. I wanted to be a music teacher for a while so I enjoy classical, jazz, blues, and opera. On a daily basis however I listen to Joss Stone (my all time favorite), Etta James, Linkin Park, Eminem, Jay-Z and Lupe Fiasco, but there are many more. Movies...I enjoy a plethora of them. City of God, Crash, Babel, Talledaga Nights, X-Men, Dodgeball, Born Into Brothels and Juno are definitely in my top 20 though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cell phone, computer, water, contacts, friends, and shoes....gotta have my feet covered.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, what my next move is, how I'll attain it, where I'll go and whom I'll share it with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Whatever comes up although I'm rarely busy on Friday nights
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm fragile but willing to dare in a relationship.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Of course if you're attracted and/or interested, but also if growing with someone in the scope of a relationship is important to you. Also I have NO tolerance for any kind of racial issues. It makes absolutely no sense to me.