Ive come to the conclusion that I want a diamond. Diamonds are sturdy, hard, stable, tried and tested. They are created under pressure, transparent, sturdy and beautiful, and they enhance their environment. I want a woman who emodies those characteristics. Someone who I don't have to wonder what they're thinking or what their intentions are. Someone who has been through the fire and emerged victorious and better for the wear. Someone who is stable and, while they may have their insecurities, those insecurities do not define their life. And most of all someone who is beautiful (to me)inside and out.
In my more than 30 years I have experienced an abundance of life's dichotomies, many of which most people never experience. I have had great, affluent times and times of impoverishment. I have flown across the world and been stuck in Jackson. I have had and lost intense love. All of our experiences help shape who we become, but that outcome is completely our choice. We choose to either learn and grow from our experiences, or to become victims, not accept responsiblity, or remain stagnant. Each experience, no matter how positive or negative, is your choice to interpret in either a positive or negative light. I REFUSE to be a victim. I WILL learn and grow, which is so much easier to do with amazing support. I do crave a relationship, however I will not seek one out..."looking" for a relationship makes absolutely no sense to me. Let's meet, develop a great friendship and let it grow into so much more.
I'm kind of strict about to whom I talk and with whom I spend time. However I don't want to give the impression that I'm so picky that I'm not worth a shot. Get to know me, I'm a really good guy, really laid back, and just looking to get to know someone great who will help me grow and allow me to do the same with/for her.