Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ive come to the conclusion that I want a diamond. Diamonds are
sturdy, hard, stable, tried and tested. They are created under
pressure, transparent, sturdy and beautiful, and they enhance their
environment. I want a woman who emodies those characteristics.
Someone who I don't have to wonder what they're thinking or what
their intentions are. Someone who has been through the fire and
emerged victorious and better for the wear. Someone who is stable
and, while they may have their insecurities, those insecurities do
not define their life. And most of all someone who is beautiful (to
me)inside and out.
In my more than 30 years I have experienced an abundance of life's
dichotomies, many of which most people never experience. I have had
great, affluent times and times of impoverishment. I have flown
across the world and been stuck in Jackson. I have had and lost
intense love. All of our experiences help shape who we become, but
that outcome is completely our choice. We choose to either learn
and grow from our experiences, or to become victims, not accept
responsiblity, or remain stagnant. Each experience, no matter how
positive or negative, is your choice to interpret in either a
positive or negative light. I REFUSE to be a victim. I WILL learn
and grow, which is so much easier to do with amazing support. I do
crave a relationship, however I will not seek one out..."looking"
for a relationship makes absolutely no sense to me. Let's meet,
develop a great friendship and let it grow into so much more.
I'm kind of strict about to whom I talk and with whom I spend time.
However I don't want to give the impression that I'm so picky that
I'm not worth a shot. Get to know me, I'm a really good guy, really
laid back, and just looking to get to know someone great who will
help me grow and allow me to do the same with/for her.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. I think that God gave us two ears for a reason. I'm good
at photography for the most part. I enjoy the pictures I take. I'm
good at being a friend, and I'm sure there are many other things
that I'm good at, just can't think of them right now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books? Nah! Reading puts me to sleep. As far as music, just about
anything. I'm not much of a fan of country music, or anything hard
core. I wanted to be a music teacher for a while so I enjoy
classical, jazz, blues, and opera. On a daily basis however I
listen to Joss Stone (my all time favorite), Etta James, Linkin
Park, Eminem, Jay-Z and Lupe Fiasco, but there are many more.
Movies...I enjoy a plethora of them. City of God, Crash, Babel,
Talledaga Nights, X-Men, Dodgeball, Born Into Brothels and Juno are
definitely in my top 20 though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cell phone, computer, water, contacts, friends, and
shoes....gotta have my feet covered.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, what my next move is, how I'll attain it, where I'll go
and whom I'll share it with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Whatever comes up although I'm rarely busy on Friday nights
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm fragile but willing to dare in a relationship.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you enjoyed my profile. If you're the kind
of girl that can stretch me in many different ways, encourage me,
support me, challenge me and just be loved, enjoyed and adored by
me; If you want a friend, someone to talk to and hang out with. If
you don't give pity parties and feel sorry for yourself, because I
don't do well with that at all. If you're patient but assertive,
sexy and not trashy, confident but not cocky, want me but don't
need me, and if you can handle a real relationship.
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