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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:19am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

●Please be aware that I do have a boyfriend. We have an open relationship, we're each others primary significant others's, and we live together.

●If you want to date me, you will be dating me, not both my partner and I. We're not a package lol.

●I'm open to all types of friends, but I am only interested in dating therians or otherkin. I define both later in my About Me section.

●Age preferences:
Male friends: 30-39 years old
Females friends: 18-26 years old

Exceptions: 1) If you know of a part time and under the table job I may be able to work, or 2) If you're otherkin.

●Anyone messaging me, with the exception of customers, should live in California.

●Please don't go off complementing me; it makes me really uncomfortable. Instead, make your message interesting!

●I know it is long, but please read my entire profile, especially the 'Message Me If' section. I promise, its relevant.

Thank you! :)


Hello lovely people! My name is Jiriah. I'm considered pretty weird by most people's standards, and you should know that before you start. I know my profile is long, but everything I've written was included for a reason.

First of all, I am genderfluid, which means that my gender identity fluctuates. I am physically female, but on any given day I may identify as/ feel internally like a male, a female, both genders, or neither gender.

I practice BDSM, which is an acronym that stands for Bondage and Disipline (BD), Dominance and submission (D/s), and Sadism and masochism (S&M). I have been in the BDSM community for about 5 years. I am a Dominant and a primal. This is purely informational; I am not currently looking for submissives or slaves at this time. If you are interested in learning about BDSM, would be a good place to start.

I am both a therian and otherkin. Otherkin is an umbrella term for individuals that identify as something other than human on a non-physical level. A subset of otherkin, called therians, identify specifically as earthly animals. After over a decade of research and analysis, I have concluded that this is a spiritual condition rather than a mental disorder (and being a psych major, I feel that I know a thing or two). The Werelist, an online forum, mainly focuses on a subset of otherkin called therians but it is nevertheless a great resource that I'd highly recommend. If and when I do start dating again, I would be looking for a partner that is also otherkin. Also, what someone specifically identifies as (wolf, dragon, fairy, etc) doesn't matter to me really; just being otherkin is enough.

In regards to my religious beliefs, I am am Omnist. I recognize all Gods, Goddesses, religions, and spiritual paths. I primarily practice Kemetic polytheism. I incorporate various types of witchcraft into those practices, in addition to many of the essential concepts of Zen Buddhism. I have been a practicing witch for over a decade now. However, just because I recognize all paths, does not mean that I like or agree with them all.

I make custom bone necklaces and do tarot readings; check out my 'What I'm Doing With My Life' section for more details!

I am German and I take great pride in my heritage, and I'm currently working on speaking German better. I'm also learning Japanese. I would love to become friends with someone who could help me practice either or both languages in person. As well, I am beginning to learn how to read, write, speak, and transliterate Ancient Egyptian hieroglyphs. I am learning sign language too (but very slowly lol).

I am very much the otaku. I love anime, cosplaying, manga, Magic The Gathering... too many things to list here! I will go on about this stuff for hours if you let me.

I am an INTJ personality (Introversion, Intuition, Thinking, Judging): "Mastermind/ Architect". Introverted intellectual with a preference for finding certainty. Skilled in analysis. A builder of systems and the applier of theoretical models.

It's worth mentioning that I am disabled. I have several physiological conditions that can best be summed up as 'chronic pain'. However, so long as I take my pain meds before hand, I can usually do most activities, such as hiking, dancing, swimming, etc :)

I have Bipolar Disorder Type II as well. The difference between Type I and Type II is mainly that Type II has an effect on mood, not sanity. I am choosing to put this out there because not everybody wants to be with someone who is bipolar, or can even handle it. If you cannot handle it, that's fine; just move on to another profile. For the record, I do take psych meds.

I love piercings and tattoos. I currently have 14 tattoos and 11 piercings (7 of which I counted as pairs), and I still have more I want to do!

I'm a rivethead, meaning I'm into the industrial music scene and subculture. I am highly individualistic and fiercely independent. I do not respond well to the concept of conformity. I am unapologetically me. Leave your expectations at the door; I don't abide by the social contract.

I am a professionally trained and recorded flutist as well. I have gone on about two tours with my former Wind Ensemble (both out of state), and two with my former String Orchestra, as well as performing live in both solos and duets.

If you have any questions that are not covered in my profile or in any of the websites I referenced, then I would be happy to answer said questions, so long as they are asked respectfully :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Before I get to the rest, I would like to mention that I am looking for a semi-regular, under-the-table, part time job. As I mentioned elsewhere in my profile, I have some physical disabilities, and that should be kept in mind. If you know of anything, please contact me! I am not looking for an official, on the record job at this time.

To continue, while I am going to school full time, majoring in psychology, I have several additional practices.

As mentioned in my 'About' section, I make custom bone necklaces which are comprised of half human bone and half animal bone, which are then fused together. Yes, purchasing and using human bones is perfectly legal (in all 50 states). However, due to varying state regulations, it is your responsibility to be aware of what animal parts are and are not legal to own in your state of residence prior to ordering. I will not be held liable for any order that is confiscated by customs. You can view my work or order at:

I also do tarot readings. I ask for a $30 donation which allows me to advance my studies in the metaphysical arts and improve my craft. If you would like a reading, message me and we can arrange a time and place!

In addition to those services, I can write your essay, or virtually any other literary assignment that you need done, for you. I can complete the entire assignment or go over what you've already written and improve it. My writing skills are excellent and my prices reasonable. If you send me your paper requirements I'll send you a quote.

For any of the services I provide, I only accept Paypal or cash, though Paypal is often preferable, in my opinion for both parties. Due to some unfortunate experiences, I really can't accept any other methods of payment. Thank you for your understanding.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
BDSM, making bone jewelry, tarot card readings, writing, poetry, debating, language, airsoft, playing music, industrial singing/screaming, drawing, cosplay, yelling at people for littering, tripping over nothing, and making social situations awkward lol.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My piercings, dark eye makeup, weird clothes, or multi-colored hair.

Also, the fact that I wear my PJ pants in public. A lot. Don't let the pictures I put up of myself from EVENTS fool you, its mostly pajamas lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books (Nonfiction):
Why There is No God
The God Delusion
God Is Not Great
Hardcore Zen
A Field Guide to Otherkin
Welcome to the Jungle

Books (Fiction):
House of the Scorpion
Ghost Moon
Lord of the Flies

I don't know where to put JTHM...

Phantom of the Opera
How to Train Your Dragon
The Breakfast Club
When Harry Met Sally

Dr. Who
Game of Thrones

Anime (I'm listing this separately):
Akame Ga Kill
Nodame Cantabile 
Full Metal Panic
Soul Eater
Inu Yasha
Spice and Wolf
Zero no Tsukaima
Full Metal Alchemist
Shakugan no Shana

Top Songs (no particular order):
Bestrafe Mich (Rammstein)
Schwarze Witwe (Eisbrecher)
Ich Muss Garnix (Grossstadtgefluester)
Reich Mir Die Hand (Blutengel)
Koldovstvo (Kukryniksy)
Omnis Mundi Creatura (Helium Vola)
Keine Macht (Terminal Choice)
Save Me (Avenged Sevenfold)
Vermillion (Slipknot)
Saffron's Curse (Cradle of Filth)
Carry on my Wayward Son (Kansas)
Live to Tell the Tale (Nightwish)
Lunatic Asylum (Forever Slave)
The Measure of All Things (Lord of the Lost)
Christfuck (:Wumpscut:)
Radius 17 M (Massiv in Mensch)
Chrome (VNV Nation)
The Dark Half (Aesthetic Perfection)
Call the Ships to Port (Covenant)
Der Maschinist (Orange Sector)
Live With Myself (C/A/T)
Donten (DOES)
Zughenruhe (Audiocentesis)

Those little white chocolate balls by Lindt... I'm not trying to be funny, my diet really isn't much more complex than this.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Since I am assuming this question is refering to material belongings, they would be, in no particular order:

My BDSM equipment
My taxidermy supplies
My books
My tarot deck
My dremel
My jewelry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Spirituality, politics, the environment, the crippling social stupidity, and why there are toilet paper commercials. WHO IS NOT BUYING THIS?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually either relaxing with my boyfriend, going out for a green tea latte, or at a goth/industrial club.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There's not really anything that I wouldn't talk about, so long as I am asked about it respectfully. Yes, I am always working on improving myself (as I think everyone should), but overall I'm happy with who I am, and I'm not embarrassed or ashamed of anything about myself.

But that's not a fun answer, so here. I often drool in my sleep. Sometimes on my partner if I fall asleep on him. There you go.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You understand and respect that I have a boyfriend. Also, that you are looking to date me, not both my boyfriend and I. I am pretty territorial of my partners, so while everyone is consenting and informed, we keep things separate in this respect.

You are therian or otherkin. This is the most basic requirement for a relationship that I have. For friends, this is not a requirement.

You are rivet, goth, punk, or alternative.

You love to discuss, debate, and have long intellectual conversations. There are precious few traits that I value above intelligence. Honesty is very important to me as well.

You have a mind of your own and are not afraid to express it! As well, that mind should be OPEN!

You're not a conformist and won't change yourself for society.

You have manners. Common decency is important, and it is the little things that make the biggest difference.

You like musicals! Especially if you like to sing along!

You're not afraid to wrestle with me. This is very important. I’m rough; don’t be scared that you’re going to hurt me. I hate that ‘but you’re a girl!’ shit.

And, finally, if you have actually read my entire profile! (especially the section below)


As I have said, I would rather put everything out there and not waste anyone's time, and for me, that also includes what I DON’T want. None of this applies to customers, except for talking to me with respect. So, in no particular order, please do NOT message me if:

You are not in the age range I am looking for:
Males: 30-39 years old
Females: 18-26 years old

(The only exceptions to the above are if you know of a part time & under the table job, or if you're otherkin.)

You're not local. I'm only looking for people in Southern California.

You do not have anything of any worth or originality to say. I hate boring conversations, openers, and small talk.

You have bad grammar.

You're normal. If you consider yourself normal and you're pretty sure society considers you normal (and you actually care about social approval) please don't bother.

You don't like to read. This is a huge deal breaker for me.

You don't like the kind of music I like (primarily industrial, goth, and dark rock). I've been with people before who haven't. I don't want to again.

You don't care about politics; I detest political apathy.

You want me to teach you BDSM or you want to be a sub or slave of mine. I am not looking for BDSM exclusive relationships such as those at this time.

You want to webcam, IM, exchange dirty pictures, sext, or basically any type of sexually themed communication. No.

You're one of those people who message someone trying to come off as charming and nice, that turns into an insult generator once they're rejected. Basically, if you're two faced.

You lie. Lying is absolutely not permissible to me. If lies are permissible to you, don’t you dare try to come into my life.

You're rude, obnoxious, don't have manners, or any combination of the aforementioned. Talk to me with respect or don't talk to me at all.

You have a problem with or are uncomfortable around people that use prescription pain medication or medical marijuana. I have chronic pain, and I use these things to manage it.

You are allergic to animals or don't like animals. If you're allergic then you'll be miserable around me, and I don't trust, like, or respect people that don't like animals.

I won't make this an 'if'- do NOT go off complementing me. I absolutely, completely and totally hate it. As well, calling me babe, hun, sweetheart, Mistress, Master, etc. is not cute to me. It is an insult. If you're not my boyfriend or girlfriend, then don't call me pet names, and if you're not a sub of mine then it is not your place to call me Master or Mistress. Thanks.


Thank you very much for taking the time to read this all before you message me! I know it‘s long, and I appreciate your patience :)