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31 M Rochester, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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** currently preparing to relocate **

I am a freelance journalist for a small news org covering civil rights issues and foreign affairs with a non-partisan bent. My new focus has been climate change. I'm fiending Naomi Klein's new book on the matter. Currently I'm reading Max Blumenthal's ethnography of the apartheid state of Israel, Goliath.

In brief, I'm looking for somebody willing and able to build something like a relationship/partnership minus the crutches. I tend to be introverted but crave dialogue, both deep and light. Life is all about give and take, and working to not just maintain that but also challenge it so it grows. Not easy - but a worthwhile endeavor, I'd say.

How'd i do?

Also, why do Brian Eno's soundscapes just get me?
What I’m doing with my life
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- Push-ups, dips, sit-ups, pull-ups. Also do plyometrics and bike ride a lot.
- trying to challenge myself each and every day, fending against the usual.
- I don't know what else to say
I’m really good at
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Got more lyrics than a church got ooooo lord's
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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- I read Stephen Powers' shorty story "The Seventh Event" the other day. It was good. Recommend. Maureen N. McLane; Louise Gluck; Mary Oliver; Matt Rasmussen; Anne Carson

- Louie. John Oliver. Firefly.

- I like beats without lyrics, like IDM or space ambient stuff to zone out on. I also like folk Dylan, "It's Aright Ma." Of Montreal's song "The Past is A Grotesque Animal." Philip Glass. Chopin nocturnes.

- Pasta mmmm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The human heart is in conflict with itself

- Faulkner

We tend in our terrors to forget (we
do not store them) felicities.

- Christina Davis
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either writing or going out or whatever
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a Neil Postman tramp stamp which reads: "Entertainment is the supra-ideology of all discourse on TV"
You should message me if
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You want to talk about things we have a common interest in.