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32 Portland, OR Man


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  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 9:54pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Freelance journo. Skeptic. Traveler.

Humans? Meh. Humanity? Hmmm, maybe.

Silver-linings do not exist, and yet we may or may not imagine them into existence. Good manners are an art to be learned and lost. Autonomy is a myth (but its allure is not). I am a firm believer that unintentional humor is the best humor.

^^ ok that is all the wisdom i (think i) know

I'm not as grumpy as I look, promise. Oh, and -yes- I have all my teeth.
What I’m doing with my life
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- Push-ups, dips, sit-ups, pull-ups. Also do plyometrics and bike ride a lot. Wanna get into bjj.

I am a citizen journalist for a small news org covering civil rights issues and foreign affairs with a non-partisan bent.

My new focus has been climate change. I'm fiending Naomi Klein's new book on the matter. Currently I'm reading Max Blumenthal's ethnography of the apartheid state of Israel, Goliath.

To temper the cynicism which creeps up on me upon reading through social media feeds and catty trolls, I am reading Moby Dick and Sex At Dawn
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Maybe eyes?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Flow My Tears, The Policeman Said. Read Stephen Powers' shorty story "The Seventh Event" the other day. It was good. Recommend.

Poetry: Maureen N. McLane; Louise Gluck; Mary Oliver; Matt Rasmussen; Anne Carson

TV: Black Mirror. Louie. John Oliver. Firefly.

Movies: Another Earth. Cosmopolis. In Bruge.

Music depends on mood

sad/longing: How To Destroy Angels; Radiohead; Sharon Van Etten; Strand of Oak; ambient stuff

Inspired: folk Dylan, "It's Aright Ma." DOOM.

Spacey, intropsective, or when writing: Little People. Philip Glass. Chopin nocturnes. Massive Attack. Portishead. FC Kahuna. Hooverphonics.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- rapport
- gallows humor
- staircase wit
- space
- irreducible complexity by the numbers
- more space
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The human heart is in conflict with itself

- Faulkner

We tend in our terrors to forget (we
do not store them) felicities.

- Christina Davis

"An Amercan bard at last!"

- Whitman on Whitman
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Oh you know, things
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a Neil Postman tramp stamp which reads: "Entertainment is the supra-ideology of all discourse on TV"

Also, my feet sweat.
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You wanna get coffee

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