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21 / F / Straight / Single

Dunkirk, Indiana

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Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
On 1/26/13 I decided to give my life completely over to God. I’ve always been a Christian, but I have so much room to grow. I want to keep my relationship with God growing and become a better Christian. I am not perfect by any means, but I hunger to be an all-around better person. I respect everybody’s right to believe in what they want, but if you’re not a Christian please don’t waste my time or yours.

I’m a determined young lady in college. I am going to make something of myself in life and nothing is going to stop me. I’m the type of person if you tell me I can’t do it I’m going to prove you wrong at any cost. I don’t give up easily. I am a fighter. I love to travel and am up for a road trip any day of the week. Two of my goals in life involve traveling and are history related. I love history especially if it has anything to do with WWII.

I was raised to appreciate nature and love the outdoors. I grew up going fishing and to races and still enjoy doing so. I’m pretty easy going and get along with mostly everybody. I have a way of adapting to my environment so it doesn’t matter what I’m doing. I’m not into partying or drinking. I’ve never been hunting but would like to go once just for the experience. I’m kind of young, but I’ve been told I’m wise for my age. I see things in a more grown up mature adult way than most people my age and even older. I see the big picture in a lot of situations.

I think life is too short and precious to take it too serious all of the time. I have a very fun playful side! I can be content playing with some good old sidewalk chalk! I love going to the park and going for walks. I love to swim and can’t stand to be away from a pool (or body of water) in the summer. I enjoy going to see movies. I love going to the zoo. I love having in depth intelligent conversations. It really is a turn on when somebody can use proper English and grammar. Family and friends are extremely important to me. When I make a promise I keep it. I take that seriously. I believe communication is key (relationships, friendships, in a job, with your doctor etc.).

I hate drama and head games. We’re adults here lets act like it. I want somebody I can have fun with and that makes me laugh. Cheating and lying are terrible and unacceptable. I am the type of girl that gets married once. I want forever. Any children I may have should have the same father. I hate when children come from broken homes and have all these step siblings and parents. My parents have been married for thirty years and that is hard to come by these days, but that’s what I strive for. I don’t sleep around. I’m better than that. Frankly I find unwanted pregnancies and nasty STDs unattractive.

I am really attracted to older men. I always have been. I think it has a lot to do with the maturity level. The only way I would ever get married is if I knew you were really in it for the long hall. I have to know you’re going to be there through the thick and thin. You can’t give up when you hit a little bump in the road. Today people just aren't quality. People get married and go into things thinking eh, if it doesn’t work I’ll just get divorced or leave. With that attitude no wonder half of all marriages end in divorce. If I message you and you’re not interested simply tell me. I’m a big girl I can handle it. Be a damn man, grow a pair, and just tell me.

Lately I've been getting into physical fitness and eating healthier. You can tell by my pictures I'm no twig. I'm overweight and I'm not settling for it. I enjoy going to the gym to work out at Ball State. I want to become healthier so I can enjoy life even more now, and even more importantly set myself up for good health in old age. I don't want to be limited when I'm an elder person because I have poor health. I want to be the old couple that travels and still gets out and does stuff. If you like to stay in all the time and watch so much tv, movies, and play video games that you never see the daylight it probably won't be a good combination of the two of us. I'm not saying you have to be a health nut, but your health and well-being should be important to you. If you have any questions, comments, or advice please message me. (:

If you want a person that is a true loyal friend, an honest person, has good morals, and likes to have fun and explore message me. (:
What I’m doing with my life
I currently am in my third year at Ball State University. (I made the dean's list last semester!!! :D) I'm majoring in psychology and minoring in educational psychology and criminal justice. Ideally I want to work in clinical psychology hands on with mental disorders. If it was realistic and there was an actual demand for it, I would want to work with serial killers and the such like Ted Bundy, Ed Gein, or Charles Manson. But, we know that really isn't all that common, only well know thanks to the media. If I were to work in the cj field I would probably do something in corrections. I'm not sacred of moving to find work. Have to go where the money is at!
I’m really good at
Helping other people with there problems. I often get asked for relationship advise for some reason (even though I'm usually single). I'm a great listener and have a way of putting myself in their shoes and not judging.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically usually my eyes or smile. As a person something a lot of adults have commented on about me is how mature I am and the way I see things for my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Twilight Series (gag, I know), anything WWII, Cosmo and Hot Rod magazines. The Outsiders, That Was Then This Is Now, Heaven Is For Real. The Shack. It doesn't really matter to me. I love to read.
Movies:Time Burton, Johnny Depp, and Rachel McAdams. I love scary and funny movies and like love stories. I don't mind action movies and I like kung fu movies. I love WWII movies. American Pie, Super Troopers, The Nightmare Before Christmas, The Notebook, The Shawshank Redemption, One Flew Over the Cucu's Nest, Blow, Despicable Me, Ma and Pa Kettle movies, The Back Up Plan, The Ugly Truth, Knocked Up, American History X etc.
Shows: House, Big Bang Theory, Spongebob (lame, I know). Stuff on TLC, Oxygen, Nick. Love the History Channel, History International, and Military channel.
Music: Everything, and I do literally mean everything. Favorite most listened to bands are: Sublime, Godsmack, Rains, Michael Buble, Rascal Flatts, and Skillet.
Food: I love chicken. I don't like tacos and I think pizza is over rated. I'm a sloppy joe snob. I hate Manwich and will only eat my own homemade kind. I've been told I make really good mashed potatoes. Life Cereal, chicken and noodles, mac n cheese, apples etc.
The six things I could never do without
1. God (my religion)~~~Physical Items:1. iPod
2. Family~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~2. Vehicle
3. Friends~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~3. Toothbrush
4. Music~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~4. Showers
5. Laughter~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~5. Chapstick
6. Love~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~6. Cell Phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
*What to do with my life and how to achieve the things I want.
*Finding that special someone.
*Where I will end up working in my field
*Religion, politics, the end of the world, you know that kind of thing
*I spend a lot of time analyzing past fights, relationships, friendships, this or that and anything else in between
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually hanging out with friends, dicking around on campus, or spending time with family. It just depends on my school schedule, what friends/family is/are doing, how I feel and what mood I'm in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I had to pick a character from any movie, show, whatever, to have sex with (or the guy dress up as) it would be Woody from Toy Story!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
*You are serious about a relationship or want new friends/chat
*NO hookups, friends with benefits, screw buddies etc.
*Just because I send you a message or message you back doesn't mean I'm trying to date you or anything. No need to freak out.