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41 Poughkeepsie, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
High school
Has kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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i'm an easy going person. i'm willing to try anything at least once, twice if i like it. i am a great friend to those that are worth it. i love my family. i think i'm finally getting a good grip on this thing we call life. it would be nice to share it with someone
What I’m doing with my life
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Working two jobs. One to pay the bills and the other is one I like. I like being around good food. So my second gig helps .
I’m really good at
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i'm really good at making people laugh. been told on more than 1 occasion that i missed my true calling. i've been told on a few occasions i should have been a stand up comic. i guess that would be a break from sitting at a desk all day. plus i do make 1 heck of a cheesecake.
The first things people usually notice about me
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really not sure. i guess it depends on what i'm doing at the time. if i'm telling a funny story then maybe they see my smile. if i'm quiet then maybe my eyes. but i think everyone notices i have a personality and it can be funny. very funny
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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wow so much to say here. love seafood, italian and spanish food. but chinese and sushi make the cut also. i love music a lot. i go to concerts whenever i can. i am a rocker deep down inside. but i like to dance so you will see me on the dance floor. movies. anything goes really. rom com. straight comedy. drama, action and a good horror flick works for me. i have read a lot of stephen king. plus i collect cookbooks.
The six things I could never do without
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my family. good friends. music. good food. i will figure out the next 2 sometime soon.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
hmmmm. i am the multi tasker extraordinaire. so i am always thinking about something. you just have to ask me and i will tell you what i am thinking at that particular moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
if there is nothing good on tv. i can be found playing my guitar or hanging out with friends. if i have my daughter that night. we are watching tv or playing a game on the nintendo wii. bowling is a lot of fun. then again so is dodgeball.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i do have a tattoo and planning on getting more.
You should message me if
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if you have a question... then just ask me.... disclaimer.. if you are younger then 30 do not contact me. no i am not going to give you a shot. trust me i will be able to sleep at night.i will not be missing a thing because i said no to you. also if you are over 45 do not contact me. i know what i am looking for. if you think i am being picky or stuck up or being a b*&^% so be it. we all have a right to be picky. again sorry for being blunt. but hey life isn't easy