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39 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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**I've dropped 20lbs since that picture...will post a current one shortly**

I just turned 39...I just finished my MBA...I live at Yonge/Eg...I am looking to meet the right woman who will make my already awesome life just that much sweeter.

I'd like to chat and then take you for a drink and together we can end this silly singleness and move on with our lives...hand in hand....well, hand in claw...ok just kidding, I have all my body parts :)

- I've been to 20+ countries (Favorites cities: London, Paris, Boston and Sydney...fave countries: Japan, Thailand and Australia)
- I am decent cook
- I have two environmental degrees (Bach and Masters) and an MBA
- I have one tattoo
- I am a wine and beer snob
- I have an eclectic taste in art. The walls of my place have photographs, aboriginal art, animation art, comic art, street art and a Jackson Pollock (obviously a reprint)
- I think tomatoes are evil
- Photography is a serious hobby of mine
- I collect signed literary novels (i.e. Christopher Moore, Stephen King as well as Giller/Man Booker/Pulitzer types) and signed movie posters (Coolest is probably my Forbidden Planet poster signed by Leslie Neilson)
- I attend a fair number of film festivals (TIFF, Hot Docs, Short Film fest) and pretty much all the literary festivals (WOTS, IFOA, Appel events) fests every year. I have no expectation that these are your thing but would love it if my interests were shared to a degree.

If you are interested in a very small representation of the kind of photos I take:

Or the kinds of books I read:

PS - After the passing of my kitty in August, I have adopted a new kitty named Molly (pic in my profile series) :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Attending all the fun summer festivals in the city ... I run a book club that occasionally hosts authors and such (I started it in 2009)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning trips and organizing things. Being creative when inspiration strikes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sense of humor mostly ... Which is now where I am supposed to make some super witty joke that will make you believe I have a sense of humor ... however, I am not going to do that ... that's right "old buck convention Alex" they call me ... never makes the joke you expect him to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In order to make this recent, this is just the best of what I've enjoyed in 2013/14

Andrew Kaufman: All My Friends are Superheroes
Lindsay Faye: Seven for a Secret
Ruth Ozeki: A Tale for the Time Being
HW Brands: The Man Who Saved the Union
Andre Agassi: Open

Wind Rises (TIFF)
Bad Words (TIFF)

Parks and Recreation

I am pretty stuck on the alternative stuff from the 1990's and classic 80's as I don't listen to the radio or have cable. I do add stuff on occasion if I hear something I like in a movie or tv show though. Nothing notable this year.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
At the end of the day "stuff" is just "stuff". People are what really matter. I certainly have my share of possessions that I love but if the apartment was on fire, I'd grab the sentimental stuff first.

In a less serious vein...I have an unnatural affection for diet pepsi...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the next cool event in the city is and who to go with...where life is going...I don't know...stuff...does "stuff" count?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no depends on the season and what's often seems to be a movie/dinner night with the summer it seems to be more festivals...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've met the real Kermit the Frog and getting to shake his hand was unspeakably cool...I will admit to being a bit overwhelmed by the picture with Animal sitting on my shoulders (which I am forbidden to share online) is my favorite photo ever....I've seen Book of Mormon four times...oh, and I cried when my cat passed away :(
You should message me if
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If a different kind of guy appeals to you...if you are interested in meeting somebody with the creativity, drive, ambition and sense of fun...if you want a guy who knows what he wants and is ready to meet the right woman.