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40 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:39pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a lot of things...somebody who loves to travel...couple dozen countries with countless museums and cathedrals and wonders that I have been lucky enough to experience first hand. My favorite moment is when I slept out under the stars in the outback and had the wonderful clarity of mind that cemented my decision to quit my job and move to Australia to do my first masters degree (I have two)....I love festivals (TCAF and TIFF being my favorites)...eating well (Southern Accent is my favorite restaurant)...I run a successful book club and have for almost six years now...I have lots of good friends who matter to me...what I don't have is somebody to share the experiences with on a deeper level...I have traveled extensively by myself (I have no intention of not doing things just because I happen to be single) and very much enjoyed doing so....but I want a partner on those voyages...I want to walk hand in hand along the Seine...I want to look in your eyes and then laugh my butt off when I push you in...ok maybe not but that sentence was veering towards sappy...

If you like a guy with a sarcastic sense of humor who can both choose the right wine and hang in trackies and a hoodie, then perhaps...just perhaps...this can be the beginning of something cool.
What I’m doing with my life
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Planning my career...Attending all the fun festivals in the city ... I run a book club that occasionally hosts authors and such (I started it in 2009)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning trips and organizing things. Being creative when inspiration strikes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sense of humor mostly ... Which is now where I am supposed to make some super witty joke that will make you believe I have a sense of humor ... however, I am not going to do that ... that's right "old buck convention Alex" they call me ... never makes the joke you expect him to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In order to make this recent, this is just the best of what I've enjoyed in 2014/15

Andrew Kaufman: All My Friends are Superheroes
Patrick Ness: A Monster Calls
HW Brands: The Man Who Saved the Union
Andre Agassi: Open

St Vincent
John Wick

Game of Thrones

I have wide tastes, my itunes library is pretty eclectic. I tend to listen to music at the gym or on transit or when cleaning.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
At the end of the day "stuff" is just "stuff". People are what really matter. I certainly have my share of possessions that I love but if the apartment was on fire, I'd grab the sentimental stuff first.

In a less serious vein...I have an unnatural affection for diet pepsi...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the next cool event in the city is and who to go with...where life is going...I don't know...stuff...does "stuff" count?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no depends on the season and what's often seems to be a movie/dinner night with the summer it seems to be more festivals...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've met the real Kermit the Frog and getting to shake his hand was unspeakably cool...I will admit to being a bit overwhelmed by the picture with Animal sitting on my shoulders (which I am forbidden to share online) is my favorite photo ever....I've seen Book of Mormon four times...oh, and I cried when my cat passed away :(
You should message me if
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If a different kind of guy appeals to you...if you are interested in meeting somebody with the creativity, drive, ambition and sense of fun...if you want a guy who knows what he wants and is ready to meet the right woman.