I'm a large fellow, part of which I'm blaming on multiple soul-sucking years in desk jobs at odd hours. Trying to turn that around now with a lot of walking and whatever other physical activities people invite me for. Only semi-coordinated, so hopefully people can put up with some awkwardness at the start.
I've been repeatedly burned by people and have mostly given up on being subtle about things. Expect me to be direct and honest even where it might cost me. I'm trying not to hurt people in this effort, but sometimes you just never know how someone will respond.