yuan_fen
41 Shanghai, China
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My self-summary
Well well well kind of special person (if avoiding highways makes people special). SHARE (anything : ideas experiences emotions) is my key word. There are 2 ways of sharing for me : talk & act. Both at the same time or separetely but I hate to "hung out". I have no superficial relations. I don't need to see people just not to be alone. I do need a lot of time for myself.
I live in Shanghai in my own way. You wil not see me hunging in clubs, art galleries more than twice a year. I am involved in cat's rescue and if you can't accept that I might be in a vet on Friday night, rather than make myself look great for a date than you better not contact me.
What I’m doing with my life
Good question. I live as if might die next day. So I try to keep in order my belongings and not to leave too much to clean up to the person who might be in charge of closing my file. LOL
Seriously, I belive life is only a chapter of a next journey but its destination depends on what we do here and now. So I do my best to end up in a better place after.
I’m really good at
Cuddeling my cats, wasting my time. But also making friend - probably the "thing" I am the most proud. I've learnt from them more than from (probably too many) books that I've read.
The first things people usually notice about me
Her breast is flater than her ass, I guess. Kidding, I don't know. I don't really care now - but I used to cry because of people who judged me wrong. I grew up from that.
And as you can read me - english is not my natif language and I don't do any effort to speak it better. I still have lot of work to do on my chinese.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dostoïevsky, Céline, Bellow, Cortazar, 贾平凹, 残雪... I am a selective reader. I read in French mostly but Saul Bellow's Herzog - I listen to it. A good writing is for me a text that sounds great, can be read to a kid.
Lars von Trier, Wong Kar-wai represent a lot for me. Masters.
The six things I could never do without
Pencil, camera, parfume, book, cats around, swiming pool in the neigbourhood, sun from time to time
& COFFEE & cigarettes (will quit ... one day)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I do think, sometimes too much sometimes not enough. When I do, I analize fast and deeply. I am European and have a critical mind. I have a strong sens of fairness, justice and elegance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out or inside my bed. I wish the countryside was closer to Shanghai. I would be better with planning my week-ends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I was raised by an alcooholic father with Asperger syndrom symptoms and by an high IQ mother, hyperactif and often exhausting.
I am their kid and I am not responsible of all of my defaults but I do work on it.
I abhor social obligations and luck of good manners.
You should message me if
if you think I might reply. If you find me attractive and don't mind if I don't ;-) If you are able to stop and see world with a poet / painter eyes. If you have no ready script for the story we might write.

Men under separation or divorce involving kids and an angry wife, sorry, I am done with it. Get your past packed in a box before you knock at my door. I will be happy to discover the best you kept from it.
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