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34 M Overland Park, KS

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'll try to convey my personality in a nutshell here.

I have a serious side: I'm a singer-songwriter who writes mostly piano ballad type of songs that tend to be more on the sad end of the spectrum.

I have a goofy side: In contrast to the general theme of my music, I occasionally make comedy videos that feature extreme-cheeseball humor and seriously lame jokes. I mainly do this to amuse myself, but it seems to amuse some of my friends too.

I'm a gamer: Borderlands and Ratchet & Clank are my favorite series.

I like to dance: Although I do hate the gay bars in KC, so I usually save the dancing for my apartment or get a good upper-body-dance in while I wait at a stoplight.

I work out: I'm not a douchey tool about it. I do not call other guys "brah." I do not flex in every mirror. Only half of them. Kidding!


That's enough for this section.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a Community Manager for a big tech company, which basically means I'm on Facebook and forums all day and I get to boss people around.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
As I said, I sing and write songs. I made it to the finals of this year's ArtsKC@Work competition. I was a Fringe Fest invitee, too!

I'm also a competent writer, but I'm not published beyond one of those lame poetry contests that publishes pretty much every entrant while then attempting to sell them books and whatnot.

I mentioned comedy earlier. But I won't mention it here. Hahahaha!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes or my smile. Now that I've been doing squats and lunges, I hope my butt gets added to that short list.

I'm kidding, now quit looking at my butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: "The Little Prince," my brother's as-yet-unpublished novel, the Andy Pandiferous eBook series.

Movies: Too many to name, including but not limited to: "Adam & Steve," "Minority Report," "Hanna," "Were the World Mine," "The Conjuring," etc...

TV: "Buffy the Vampire Slayer," "Strangers with Candy," "The Mindy Project," "Fringe," "Dexter," "Banshee," "Hannibal," "Game of Thrones," etc...

Music: Patrick Wolf, Darren Hayes, MsMr, OneRepublic, Carolina Liar, needtobreathe, Alanis Morissette, Metric, Bastille, etc...

I can't pick a favorite food because I'm a huge food lover. I CAN tell you that two dishes which have always been a big love of mine are curried squash soup and biscuits & chocolate gravy. I think that last one is a southern Missouri thing. People from that area know what I'm talking about, but everyone else just looks at me like I'm crazy. ("Chocolate gravy? What the...?!")
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My dog
2. A piano or keyboard
3. A pen
4. A pad of paper
5. An imagination
6. A bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Song lyrics, life in general, and character/story ideas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing video games at home or out having dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book, for the most part. Ask, and ye shall (likely) receive.
You should message me if
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You want to message someone but don't know who. Hahahahaha!

Or, you know, if you want to talk to me specifically.