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34 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:04pm
Asian, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm kinda shy on this site, if I don't reply right away please don't feel offended I just take my time on here. I'm relatively new to Toronto where I moved in with my partner who I am in an open relationship with so I'd love to meet some new people with similar interests and good compatibility and friendship percentage (80%+).

As mentioned I am in an open relationship so if you listed that you are looking for someone who is single or one of your question answers is that you would never be in an open relationship... Well chances are I won't respond to you. That is unless you message me only wanting friendship.

I'm a biracial queer asian who has a penchant for sweet, ridiculous, and silly people. I am not interested in chatting or meeting people who fetishize asians or queer ladies. I'm also not skinny so if that's what you are looking for then move along, if chubby works then keep on reading.

I love all sorts of people... but have incredibly high standards/or I guess a low tolerance for the straight men... I usually like my manfriends fancy, pro-feminist, respectful, and open.

I'm more interested in connection with other POCs (people of color), as I'm feeling like I'm lacking those connections and understanding that comes from also being POC in a racist society. I'm often labelled as an anti-racist killjoy, and so not always having to explain why something is racist would be ideal.

I'm an immature mature person if that makes any sense. I like being silly, not taking "adulthood" too seriously, and opening myself up to the delighfulness around me. That being said I also know how to dial it down and be there in serious situations.

I am political and love people who are politically left minded but can't stand activist elitism... it makes actions innaccesible -- which is gross.

I live in little Portugal/trinity bellwoods park area in Toronto with my awesome partner and my always loveable but sometimes mischievous kitten. I like to craft, my crafts of choice: doodling solo, 1inch button making, zines, making little presents for friends, and resting comfortably in the beginning phases of knitting (will I ever move beyond dishcloths?). I would love to learn how to use my inherited sewing machine! I've lived in QC, ON, NB, and BC. I occasionally feel the intense need to migrate somewhere new, but then get charmed and just want to stay and cuddle.

Lets see what else.. I am passionate about crêpes..if you can make me breakfast/lunch/supper/snack crêpes, I am yours...but not really since ownership in relationships makes me want to vomit..which is really sad since I wanna digest those crêpes. But it would be a major + in me wanting to know you and charm you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a social worker by education, I work and volunteer with a few non-profits. I am trained as a doula and am a reproductive rights advocate. I do a lot of volunteering within the mental health field by doing crisis and support help. I am very fortunate to have employment that reminds me daily of the intelligence, potential and resiliency of people especially youth and newcomers.

My job (and volunteering) can take a lot out of me but it also fuels me. I love that it doesn't dim my light.

I go on dates with a few lovely people and like it that way. I'm not on this site to find a monogamous relationship. I just like the though of chatting with some people that I may not otherwise meet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have just started a dance battle with them, and I am winning.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Queering Femininity
Politics of birth
Boys like Her
One Man's Trash
When survivors give birth
The Revolution Starts At Home: Confronting Intimate Violence In Activist Communities, co-edited by Ching-In Chen, Jai Dulani and Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha.

Currently Reading:
Kindred by Octavia Butler

Mixed: An Anthology of Short Fiction on the Multiracial Experience, edited by Chandra Prasad

You Are a Cat! Pick-a-plot adventure by Sherwin Tija

Actually it takes me forever to finish books since I'm always picking up something new before I finish the initial book. Also I like to read academic journals and use my highlighters through them... Constant knowledge search!

Music... this could take a whole profile..

a lot of music from the Riot Grrrl movement, the XX, Broadcast, coeur de pirate, Elliot Smith, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, Bloc Party, Sufjan Stevens, MEN, Le tigre, Coco Rosie, New Order, TV on the Radio, Saul Williams, grimes, FKA twigs, TRST, The Blow, Joy Division, Fever Ray, Martha Reeves And The Vandellas, Billie Holliday, Nina Simone, Iron and Wine, Los Campesinos !, The gossip, Owen Pallett/Final Fantasy, Jenn Grant, The be good tanyas, Gary Numan, Twin Shadow, Austra, Bjork, Tori Amos, Chad Vangaalen, the Kinks, and any type of oldies, 80s, 90s music that I can sing at the top of my lungs on roadtrips or cleaning sprees.


Queer movies
Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind
Greg Araki films
Zombie/ apocalypse themed movies
Grave of the Fireflies
Made in Secret
Dance Movies

Cheese, cheese and more cheese!
green curry & pad thai
veggie sushi &gyoza
Vegitarian Ethiopian food
Anything delivery, man, I love delivery.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My chosen family
Food delivery..a diverse selection.
Occasional getaways to Montreal, ottawa or to camp in the summer
Craft supplies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my family, how to show the people in my life how special they are, skinny dipping, migrating, my crushes, roadtrips, mail correspondance, Montreal, Ottawa, Vancouver, grad schools, what my kitten may have destroyed while I was out, craft ideas, love, happiness, what I would do if I had any musical talent.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with the people I love probably cuddling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
pffft... I give you nothing until I decide I like you. hmm that probably says a lot.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*I'm more interested in connection with other POCs (people of color), as I'm feeling like I'm lacking those connections and the understandings that often comes from also being POC in a racist society. I'm often labelled as an anti-racist killjoy, and so not always having to explain why something is racist would be ideal.*

my profile piques your interest, you are not a jerk, and you can introduce me to new movies, music, live acts, art, and other fun things.

Other important things:

- you are polyamorous or open to open relationships.

- you like chubby girls

- you are going to write more than a "hi" in your message

- your first message to me isn't about what sex with me would be like or any questions about sexual things. I'm totally sex positive but a message like that first thing without a name or intro is not my style. Maybe go to the adult friend finder site instead, because that style on here will probably creep many people out.