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42 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 17, 2014
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly), LISP (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm tired of being cynical but I'm realistic. I'm extremely intuitive to the point where I miss obvious details. I've struggled sporadically with various forms of self-abuse but I'm honest about them and I am constantly working on them in one form or another. I want to be a better person. I want to help someone else be a better person. I want her to help me be a better person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Awhile back I lost it, sold and gave away a bunch of crap and moved to a tree house in WA state for a few years. I came back and decided to be an adult again. The next time I drop it all and head off into the woods, I'll be retired and with a committed partner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pattern recognition, clearing bottlenecks, and fixing things that are fixable.

While I'm trying to improve, my emotional intelligence is just about average.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to have an opinion about everything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'll consume junk in all forms and depending on said form...I may feel mildly guilty about it.

I try to eat clean real food and I'm improving.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be in the moment.

How to avoid self contemplation.

Keeping it together long enough and well enough to retire early.

Harry Harlow's monkeys.

How to help people in a manner I can sustain without making things worse for everyone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Apparently on this site while I listen to my dog gnaw on a beef knuckle.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book...but I think I'll wait until you're a little more invested before I start laying it all out for you. I have a long history of acting against my better judgment but I have supportive friends and family so I'm certain I'm not a lost cause.
You should message me if
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Smell is probably the best indicator if we have potential.