64 Tucson, AZ
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My self-summary
Left corporate America Sept. 2008 from my hometown of Ann Arbor Michigan to the central mountains of Idaho to write a book. Became a live-in caretaker to a disabled vet. No book produced, so moved on to an environment I believed would be conducive to writing.

Update 2013-2014: lived in Arizona off-grid at Mexico border... now in Tucson with eye toward intentional self-sustainable community to live amongst like-minds, back to nature, growing and making everything, fulfilling a lifelong dream... I've also lost most of my excess weight (down from 310+, and have less than 30 pounds to go)...

This sums it up nicely: "You Are A Cheddar Chip. You are an unusual person, and you defy expectations. You are living your own kind of life. You don't try to adhere to anyone's standards and rules. You do whatever feels right to your gut. You sometimes hang back, but you often have a larger-than-life personality around others. You are a storyteller. You have hilarious jokes and anecdotes. Your life is never boring, and you enjoy all the challenges that come your way." Blogthings 9-16-2014

In the meantime, as John Yeats said, I am certain of nothing but the holiness of the heart's affections and the truth of the imagination.
What I’m doing with my life
Staring into space, concocting plans and indulging visions
I’m really good at
Nurturing, hostess with the mostest, laughter, sensuality, listening, adapting, flexibility, understanding, appreciating, evaporating fear like mist in the sun
The first things people usually notice about me
Some have said they feel as though they have known me a long time after chatting only a minute. Others have said I am an "old soul," and very easy to talk to. Almost everyone says they love to see me smile and love to hear me laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Soooooooooh many! What do you have in mind?
Eclectic taste all around.
Variety is the spice of life.
Fresh food, served with love.
The six things I could never do without
Could never?!
I spend a lot of time thinking about


"Nature is content to be, knowing that everything is perfect and nothing can be better than perfection." ~ Maryann Rada

"For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” ~ Judy Garland

"In love, sex doesn't demand anything because it has everything. In sex, love withholds nothing and receives everything." ~ Steven Harrison
On a typical Friday night I am
Non-typical like any other night.
You should message me if
I do not should on people or on myself. That being said, if you are interested, lets's meet for coffee or a fresh juice and discuss what comes to mind, shall we?