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zacharytod

21 / M / gay / Single

Tallahassee, Florida

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am gregarious, intelligent, and polarizing.

My Self-Summary

Well howdy there friends, and future friends.

I am really used to having straight guy friends, and now they have moved away, and its kind of difficult to find just relaxed fun people who enjoy a beer and some pool. ..even though I suck at pool.

I am pretty swell. I read a lot, write a lot, and enjoy a night out on the town more than anything else.

My energy is directly related to other people; I love being around someone with a big personality. I voted for Obama, even though I am a gay republican (who also realizes how ridiculous it sounds) with a preppy style and awkward laugh. I love the south and country music.

While I can seem kind of cocky, I really am firmly grounded in the fact that no one should take himself or herself too seriously.

I was raised in a mixed family (bro and sis from my dad's prev marriage, other bro from my mom's prev marriage). Even though each of us is crazy, mixed-up, and lost, we do all of those things brilliantly. We are a close family; I was raised in Jersey until I was 9. While they are quite a bit older than I am, we retain this close-knit bond that most families lose. My mother is one of the most important people to me, and I believe my father is one of the most intelligent people living in our time. We love to drink, we love to eat, and we love to love.

Things that I enjoy are:
The subtleties of grammar and logic. (+)
Twitter (+)
spinach (+)
youtube Videos (+)
polo (+)
book clubs (+)
personal faith (+)
dates (+)
writing (+)
everything Florida State (+)
car dancing/singing (+)
chatting (+)
abbrevs (+)
new music (+)
logical reasoning (+)
trying new things (+)
running (+)
movies in pjs (+)
questions (+)

What I’m doing with my life

I recently graduated with my Bachelor's in Creative Writing and Women's Studies. BUT, I am definitely not one of those moody shut-in writer types. Primarily, I love meeting new people and talking about their histories.

Now, I am getting my Master's in Communications. Who knows what's next for me!

I’m really good at

I am really smart, but people don't really know it when they first meet me. One of my best features is my ability to connect with others.

I am a dynamite kisser and I love to swim.

The first things people usually notice about me

My stunning green eyes, my preppy style, and my wickedly cool hair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I really like short stories. Southern lit is my speciality, and as such I am HUGE William Faulkner fan. Sound and the Fury is my all time fave. Harry Potter series also rates highly on my list. Haha.

Movies, eclectic tastes.

Music, eclectic tastes.

Food, sushi, italian blah blah blah.

The six things I could never do without

1) Family
-We are really close as I mentioned previously-

2) Hot water
-A really good shower at the end of a long hard day-

3) A positive attitude
-My senior quote from highschool [c/o '06 baby!] was, "A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort." -Herm Albright-

4) A cold beer on a friday night
-Okay, Okay, if you get this music reference, you may as well stick around, because you are DYNOMIIIIITE.-

5) Country music
-I write short stories about peoples lives when the 'everyday' is interrupted, and I think country music is very similar. It is very difficult to find a country song that isn't about a person and his or her relationship to another.-

6) 8+ pillows on my bed
-Who doesn't like to be comfortable?-

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I spend a lot of time thinking about what I want out of life and enjoying what I have.

Myself? In an only slightly narcissistic vane.

On a typical Friday night I am

With friends for sushi, and then to a club or bar...

Well I guess this my *ideal* friday night. These days I find myself become a little more of a homebody. Probably because of my dwindling cash flow, and increased school.

I normally do go out on Friday nights when the feeling is in me, so about 2 or three times a month.

Sushi happens for me about 4 or 5 times a week. UH-dicted.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've been AWFUL in relationships in the past, now I am trying to right my wrongs. I am really ready to do this right. :-p

Well not awful, I guess I was just moreso the kind of person who had a difficult time expressing why I wanted the things I wanted. I am not needy in a relationship; rather, I tend to ask for a lot of communication on how the other person is feeling. I guess the reasoning is that I want us both to be on the same page with everything and not be drifting and not realize it. You can only fix problems you know about, right?

You should message me if

If you think you are intelligent, direct, honest, and a weirdo, message me.