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zaidm89

23 / M / Gay / Seeing someone

Benicia, California

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hey, living in Benicia, CA working and going to school full time so leaves me with sporadic and sparse free time, but when I do have free time I enjoy spending it with friends trying out some new obscure board game or exploring some random location around the bay area. Also really enjoy reading and getting way too into random tv shows. I also enjoy unique or unconventional dates i.e. not just coffee or a movie although those can be fun too.

I am romantic, adventurous, and fun
What I’m doing with my life
Trying now to balance full time school(getting my Associates in Business Admin. by the end of next year) , A full time job, and a budding social life, (update:) and a new relationship which is proving more difficult then first anticipated. :P Trying to get reacquainted with some friendships and activities I've let slip a bit in these past couple years. Also picked up jogging at a great time don't ya think? Love jogging in the rain, water hitting your face, lungs filling with fluid, catching cold and getting your socks soaked, who wouldn't love that!? I do really like the rain and cold weather though because it means I definitely get to enjoy two of my three favorite things; hot cocoa and fire! Hopefully I'll get to enjoy my third favorite thing sometime soon, which is cuddling.(update I now get to enjoy all of my favorite things quite regularly with the boyfriend.)
I’m really good at
I'd like to think quite a few things; talking, hanging out, having fun, I'm really good at reading(I read like non-stop when I have time on my hands, actually I'm kind of reading right now while writing this), I'm a writer and I've been told I'm decent at that, what else...well there are other things I'm sure I just can't think of them right now
The first things people usually notice about me
My amazing uber-sexiness! haha just kidding, um I don't know probably my eyes, lots of people comment on them(even when unprovoked).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Okay I am fixing this section now:
For books I love the Authors Anne Rice, Jim Butcher, and Amelia Atwater-Rhodes. I'm starting to get into the Sookie Stackhouse novels and am also just starting to read Whitechapel Gods which is da bomb
Update: Just finished A Game of Thrones but George R Martin and starting the second book really liking the series so far.(one of the benefits of riding bart for two hours every day is I get a lot of reading done)
For movies: Well I am all over the place with movies really, and working at a movie theater doesn't help that because I will often go see crappy movies that no one in their right mind would pay money to see because I don't have to pay money to see them.
Favorite shows include: Doctor Who, Battlestar Galactica, Fringe, 30 Rock, How I Met Your Mother, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Dollhouse, Dr. Horrible's Sing along Blog, Star Trek TNG, Weeds, and many others(I watch too much tv :P)
Recently for music I have been enjoying Taylor Swift(even though I hate most country), The Decemberists, Andrew Bird, and of course I love classic Beattles, Rolling Stones, and Queen.
Ah and food, I love food, everything from Mexican to Thai, Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches to chicken parmesan, love it!
The six things I could never do without
1)my personal library
2)my computer
3)my friends
4)my weekly planner( I have a horrible memory)
5)socks
6)coffee(save the most important for last)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
so many things; the weather, nature, animals, whatever new story is going through my brain, why that man over there is eating peanuts, what would happen if he's allergic to peanuts, did I remember to put a frozen dinner in my backpack for work tonight. That's just in general.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably working(stupid night shift!) either that or hanging out with friends or co-workers after work. If I'm not doing either of those things I'm probably reading, surfing the web, playing video games, and just generally doing everything I don't have time to do during the week.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
--You are looking to find someone to chat with
--if we have similar interests(cheesy but true)
--If you think you've seen me somewhere before and are trying to figure out where.
--or for any reason you damn well please, I try to respond has often as possible.