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34 Grahamsville, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–39
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:15am
Native American, White
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

This thing told me to update my profile so people are more likely to respond. This is it. This is the update. If you don't feel more compelled to respond now then I'm not sure what's going to do it for you.

I'm not so sure it's possible to summarize oneself in a paragraph or two but I'll give it a go anyway. I guess I'd say I'm somewhat of an eccentric person, yes I know most people say eccentric is a rich person's word for crazy but I'm neither rich (yet!) or crazy. I just sometimes think my brain is wired a little differently than some people around my age. When I was a child, I'd say about five or so, I'd think about things like what does it mean to be alive and does it feel different for other people, the mental and physical sensations of being alive. I guess I still don't know the answer to that one.
Most of my life I feel I've been searching for meaning and truth, now I wonder if those things are relative maybe the meaning of life is that each of us must find our own meaning, after all how can there be one big all-encompassing meaning to everything when there are over 6 billion people on this planet and each one is different? I guess this is why I read so many books on science and astrophysics because I want to know why and how.
Those are probably the two most pretentious paragraphs I've ever written! Really I'm just a normal guy who enjoys simple things who in turn is attracted to other real, down-to-earth kind of people. I'm definitely not as serious as the past two paragraphs would lead you to believe, I joke about almost anything. My sense of humor can be a bit odd though, for example there are few things funnier to me than bad movies and cheesy music. If you're the kind of person who can laugh and not care what others think I think we'd get along pretty well!

I am updating, updating, and updating
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Good question, does anyone really know what they're doing with their lives? I guess the best answer is I'm living it! Sometimes you take charge and other times you just see where it takes you. Ultimately I think I would like to write or at least do something creative. However if I never get the opportunity I won't be too disappointed, as long as I'm making enough money to attain the things that I want from life (house, family, etc.) then I'm fine, I don't mind working hard for the things that I've got.

Here's another update, to make you twice as likely to respond! Here's what I'm doing with my life right now: hoping I don't lose my job like millions of others in this miserable economy.
Right now I'm beginning to get my life back in order. My father passed away in May of a brain hemhorrage, he was only forty-nine years old. It was and still is a devastating event to my family, especially my mother as they were married for thirty-one years. It's hard to lose a father so young. It's still hard and I still miss him everyday, I still have a hard time dealing with it all sometimes, but I'm trying my best to be strong for my mother and my little sister.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
People tell me I'm a good writer. I don't know it's hard to say what I'm really good at. Oh people also tell me I'm good at singing, that's something right? Wish I could figure out how to play an instrument though.

I'm really good at updates! UPDATE!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Good question, I'll have to ask somebody sometime.

They usually notice my eye-catching UPDATES!
The probably also notice those creepy dolls in the background in that one picture I have on here. Man what is up with that?
People also tend to notice that I totally rock.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I totally thought the Harry Potter books were for kids until a friend got me into them and they are awesome! Besides that I read a lot of books on astrophysics because there is some really mind blowing stuff in those books! I especially like Michio Kaku. I also like books by William S. Burroughs, Jack Kerouac, Steven King, Ken Kesey, other classic novels that I don't feel like typing out now.

My favorite band by far is Nine Inch Nails, I've seen them live twice and wish I could see them again sometime soon. I mostly listen to rock music even though most modern rock is garbage. Anyway here's a short list of some of my favorites:
Nine Inch Nails, A Perfect Circle, Velvet Revolver, Tool, Marilyn Manson, The Beatles, Skinny Puppy, Dave Matthews Band, Led Zeppelin, The Cure, Abandoned Pools, Throbbing Gristle, Nurse With Wound, Gackt, Weezer, Kate Bush, Alice In Chains, Stone Temple Pilots, Tears for Fears, David Bowie, Ministry, The Smiths, Screamin' Jay Hawkins, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Beck, Bauhaus, TV on the Radio, Malice Mizer, Ashes Divide, etc.

These things are all still true and I probably like even more things now! I'm not going to write about them though.

I have now seen Nine Inch Nails three times. Also, does anyone really want a list of anyone's favorite bands on things like this? I usually gloss over them and I assume others do too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cellphone, I never needed one before but now I can't seem to go anywhere without it. My car, I'd go crazy if I couldn't go wherever I wanted. Books. The internet I suppose, though when I was a kid I didn't seem to need it. My Ipod and all the music contained on it, also I guess I kind of need my glasses as they prevent me from crashing into things and dying, kind of useful those.

I figured this thing was just about those dumb superficial things that you supposedly need everyday, I'm really not as shallow as this thing makes me sound.

I honestly don't care about any of that crap anymore, after everything that's happened I now know all I need is the love and support of my friends and family above everything else.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the universe and everything.

I spend lots of time thinking about updates.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe working, maybe sleeping since I work 7 days a week and there's nothing to do out here anyway. I like to go hang out with friends whenever possible but everyone else seems to be under many of the same constraints as I am.

On a typical Friday night I can usually be found updating my profile.

I only work five days a week now. If I'm not working Friday nights you can catch me hanging out with friends, having a couple drinks and playing guitar and singing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm Batman.

I am no longer Batman as it was too much of a hassle. I do refer to myself as The Incredible Hulk from time to time however.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've read all of this and any part of it has intrigued you or rang true to you in any way. All I ask is you be a real person and not program trying to sell me something.

This is the last update.