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31 M New York, NY

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My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:00pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Arabic (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am a journalist who moved to NYC in Nov. 2012 after seven years spent in Cairo, Egypt. My first year in NYC I lived in the hetero wonderland of Park Slope, but I recently moved to Hell's Kitchen, a neighborhood I have been really loving so far.

About me: I love living and traveling overseas and have been making a life for myself in the great big world since I was in college. My goal is to have a home base in NYC and continue to see the world and do work overseas, whether in journalism or some other capacity. I am ambitious, left of center, creative, and like adventure. In my down time, I am very social and like to go out and spend time with friends as often as possible. That said, I also really value time spent hanging out by myself, whether that's a quiet night at home or spending the morning with a coffee in the community garden.

I love to cook and entertain, although the size of my Manhattan apartment makes that a challenge. As a kid, I grew up with a single parent in a blue blood Connecticut town, and I go home to visit once every couple of weeks. I went to school in DC and was a really political gay in college, which mainly manifests itself now as a deep love for Paris is Burning, RuPaul's Drag Race and thinking about queerness. My family is quite Irish and that combined with my years in the Mideast means that I spend a lot of time thinking about the legacies of the British and Ottoman empires. I really like Riot Grrrl, Arab revolutionary politics and gay high-camp performance.

If we're going to get along, you should be open-minded and flexible, have a sense of humor and be able to put things in perspective. A sense of adventure and an international outlook are extremely important. My ideal match is someone intelligent, confident, warm and kind who is mature but young at heart. A sense of humor is key, and I find upbeat guys with an easy laugh very attractive. As a good friend of mine once said: "Just be a good person, with a good brain and a good heart."
What I’m doing with my life
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Professionally, I'm a reporter for a giant newspaper, where I work on a multimedia project about the conflict in Syria. I also write about foreign affairs fairly often. I am also really good at the Internet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Striking up conversations. Cooking. Writing. Evading Salafis. Figuring things out. Adventures. Navigating awkward situations. Making people laugh. Telling stories.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am tall. Sometimes people also comment on my eyes, usually when I am wearing green.

When I am in the Middle East the first thing people notice about me is that I am foreign. The second thing is that I speak Arabic like an Egyptian drug dealer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: I like spicy food but am open to trying anything, although I am mainly a vegetarian. I love to cook and a lot of my prized possessions live in my kitchen: a rice steamer, an Egyptian lemon press, a Cuisinart, a set of super sharp knives that I keep cutting myself with.

Books: I read a lot of newspapers, magazines and blogs. The last books I read were by Michaela Wrong: "In the Footsteps of Mr. Kurtz," her account of the fall of Mobutu in the Congo and "It's Our Turn to Eat," on corruption in Kenya. Both were fantastic. I am also re-reading now a book that had a big impact on me in college, a memoir by an Irish journalist named Nuala O'Faolain called "Are You Somebody?"

Music: a hodge-podge. a lot of Arabic pop, indie rock and girls with guitars. Lately I've been listening to a lot of Palestinian hip-hop. I love hearing new things though.

TV: Drag Race, Queer as Folk, 30 Rock, Parks & Recreation, Battlestar Galactica. I've watched Paris is Burning about 100 times. Things like that. Got any suggestions for me?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my iphone, so i can check twitter and take photos.
my passport.
friends and family.
good food.
clothes to wear.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The first thing i should say is that i think a lot about politics and not so much about art or fashion. That said, the rest of the list goes: the future, the meaning of life (uh, really,) Arabic grammar, my family, work, the revolutions in Egypt and Syria, NYC real estate, boys.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out with friends in Manhattan or Williamsburg. Sometimes at dinner parties, either as a guest or the host. I also really appreciate a quiet night in and am sometimes spend Friday relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I grew up in a very Irish family, but I hate the song "Danny Boy." Like, I really hate it.
You should message me if
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You're a fun, nice guy with a good head on his shoulders.