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63 San Mateo, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 51-67
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:37pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Hebrew (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm soul'd on let me tell it straight: I'm optimistically seeking the whole taco/enchilada/plate of your choice.

That is: nothing short of a meeting of the mind/heart/guts/and parts. An extraordinary union of the paradigm-bursting kind.

Tall order you say? I know. I figure that's what's taking you so long to show up. But I'm patient. I've found that pretty good just ain't good enough.

It's not that we agree on everything (of course, if you're on the side of Trump/Carson et al, that isn't likely to cut it.) but I don't expect to be joined at the hip -- so long as we have the kind of connection that exceeds proximity and loves getting up close and personal.

If I weren't incredibly patient I'd have thrown in the towel (and the rest of it) long before now. I've had some amuse bouches that gave me a taste of what I'm looking for -- what I know exists -- and there's just no point (to me) for settling for less.

Sure I miss having someone to scratch my itch, but I have to say, part time/or pretty-almost-good is so less than satisfying it's just not worth changing the sheets.

If you have an idea that really it could be you...that you're looking for a partner who can connect with you on all four burners (or more, if you've got 'em) someone who listens deeply, celebrates your individuality, understands your pecadillos (read that one again) and is committed to growth, giving and wait for it... Judaism...then buzz in pronto. Operators, and a whole lot more, are standing by.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Realizing that The Time is NOW; and that carpe diem has never been more apt. I don't have a bucket list, but I'm thinking I might need to get a bucket.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cutting to the chase.
Telling the truth.
Acknowledging what's so.
Listening to what people say.
FInding where it hurts.
Helping to release the pain. (physical, more than emotional, but both are true).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I look like someone else they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently, I can't get enough of The Moth.
I would feel I hit the big time to win at a Moth event.
(I didn't win, but I did come in 3rd at my first (and not ready)
attempt. I'm going back in!!!!!!!)

I have bookshelves (filled) in every room of the house so
naming a favorite is impossible. I can say that the biggest space
on my shelves is occupied by
Writing (as in how-to's)
Favorite movies?
An equally difficult task...
here are a few that come to mind off the top...

B'fast at Tiffany's
Being John Malkovich
Last Tango in Paris
Raise the Red Lantern
The Hurt Locker
Monty Python & The Holy Grail
Young Frankenstein
Groundhog Day
Black Orpheus
blues sax
Cole Porter
anything blues-y and or
with a great dance beat
Food...anything healthy/fresh
mostly veggie
east coast swing
or any kind of dancing
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think most of the rest of everything else is negotiable.

there are a lot of things i have been doing without
that i want back
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
do I stay or do I go?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
see "what I am doing with my life."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If your profile has a picture of you on a motorcycle,
if you are a devout christian, have a gun in your home,
or think any of the 16 current republican contenders
would be a good choice to lead our country, we really
wouldn't be a good match.
You should message me if
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write me and I'll tell you