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62 F San Mateo, CA

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Last Online
Today – 8:52pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Impulsive procrastinator. I delay doing stuff, then, when the mood strikes, just go at it. To wit: This morning, after meeting friends for b'fast at 7 am, came home and noticed cracks in my ceiling that have been there for years. Thought: I should do something about that. Got out the plaster, the ladder, and proceeded to not only fix the ceiling but patch the wall, and several other cracks. After that I cleaned house, did laundry, and am now getting to work. It's noon.

On a similar note, I am highly improvisational, but not foolish. I don't delight in taking stupid risks. I am good at making things work...figuring things out.

I'm anti-hype. I cringe at hyperbole; and have been known to be exceedingly direct. Not much sugar coating around here. (Which is not to say uncaring.) People know where they stand with me. I like knowing where I stand, too. If you have something to say, please do.

I'm creative. Intuitive. Dry-witted. Well-read (on certain subjects); interested in a broad variety of topics. Currently on my kitchen table: Scientific American and a book about past lives. :) (Walt Whitman isn't the only one who contains multitudes, ok?)

I'm a writer, not a grammarian, but I have to admit that bad spelling irks me. (I'm not talking typos...)

I'm an INFP if that means anything to you. A 4 on the Enneagram.
(The epitome of 4, actually.)

I love the theater. Movies. Dancing. (West coast swing, anyone?)

Places I could easily see myself living: Tel Aviv. Esalen. (sigh). Sydney. Paris....or anywhere there's good weather...significant diversity...a reasonable government (a girl can dream, right?) and good culture.

I am appalled at where our country has gone vs. Hobby Lobby,
corporate funding of elections, open carry. I am seriously concerned about what the future holds for us politically. However, evidently not concerned enough to be doing something about it. (More than a bit of guilt on that one.)

I exercise healthy...

So. I would love to have an intelligent, healthy, even-tempered, kind, generous, Jewish guy stuff with. And, if you happened to write music, that would be an extra bonus. I've got a musical I need a collaborator for:) Hey. Never hurts to ask, right?
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for the answers to life's big questions. And if I'm not doing that, probably writing something for a client, taking a lovely hot bath and or reading something.
I’m really good at
Reading energy.
Making metaphors.
Dog whispering.
Finding threads of meaning.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently, I can't get enough of The Moth.
I would feel I hit the big time to win at a Moth event.
B'fast at Tiffany's.
Being John Malkovich
Last Tango
Raise the Red Lantern
The Hurt Locker
Monty Python & The Holy Grail
Cole Porter
anything blues-y
I'm terrible at lists. I can't remember what I had for lunch yesterday. However, I did have an exceptional dinner tonite at Saha, downtown in the City. Check it out.
The six things I could never do without
clean air
hot bath
some quiet
a way to record my thots
and, ok, my teds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I got here and where I'm going next.
On a typical Friday night I am
see "what I am doing with my life."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If your profile has a picture of you on a motorcycle,
or involves Christianity, I'm out.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–64
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
write me and I'll tell you