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zamuse

61 / F / Straight / Single

San Mateo, California

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:09pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I never say "never," though occasionally, I do say "maybe".

I am clear-headed, confident, concise and creative.
Directive. Supportive. And insightful.

I would love to meet a self-assured, though not overly-cocky, man who is aware enough to recognize his shortcomings, and
generous enough to overlook mine.

My ideal mate and I would find the way to interweave our interests...his artistry, my appreciation...my words...his music...
I chop, he cooks...whatever, wherever...in attitude if not in action...we'd have an easy exchange of energies...

I love listening and dancing to anything with an interesting beat...last year I took Lindy lessons...more to come.

While I love visiting cities, I'm happiest in a natural setting,
especially in the trees. I've left my heart innumerable times at Esalen. I try and go back to visit it as often as possible.

I love learning, discussing, pondering and dissecting. (Analytically, not biologically.) And I'll always say yes to sitting in a real theater to watch a film or play.

While not religious, I feel strongly connected to my Jewish heritage, and want to share that with my partner. I would welcome the opportunity/encouragement to celebrate Shabbat....be more involved in Jewish observance.

Finally, though I can appear serious /strong on the outside,
I am significantly mushy and absolutely goonie on the inside. If you can be silly (w/o being inebriated) we'd definitely get along.
What I’m doing with my life
Proving to myself that it's never too late to have a happy childhood.
Paring away everything that isn't elephant.
Living from the core -- helping others to discover theirs.

Biz-wise: I do branding.
(Minus the hot pokers and cows.)
I’m really good at
Listening.
Intuiting.
Creating.
Dreaming.
Dancing.
Loving.
Intuitive touch.
Finding the themes in people's lives
and crafting them into compelling stories.
Thinking/speaking on my feet.
The first things people usually notice about me
Is that they're sure they've met me before.
(Or I remind them of someone they know.)
And that I'm from New York. (Except I'm not.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movie list....
Breakfast at Tiffany's
American in Paris
Kagemushka
Raise the Red Lantern
2001
Hurt Locker
Being John Malcovich
Little Miss Sunshine
Annie Hall
Groundhog Day
They Shoot Horses
Atonement
shows...
I'll go to see just about anything at the theater...I do love
me some good ol time musicals (the kind that you can sing to)
food...
fresh, clean, healthy, simple light.
The six things I could never do without
perspective/a bit of hope
hot bath
pencil/paper (or other non-electronic place to record thots)
clean air
freedom
(and the last thing I can't do without is the
most private thing I am not willing to admit)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the universe and my place in it
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I just had cereal for dinner
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–64
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
write me and I'll tell you