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63 San Mateo, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 51–67
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:37am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The OKC questions never ask about the things I'm curious about,
so if you would, please answer these questions for me:

1. If you were a mattress, would you be memory-foam, springs or a futon?

2. How much do you swear in traffic?

3. Is hell other people or is it those little subscription cards that fall out of magazines?

4. Does anyone read magazines anymore? Do you? What magazines do you read?

5. Donald Trump. Discuss.

6. Which is harder -- finishing or starting?

7. What would make you very happy to never do again?

I'll be happy to supply my answers should you be curious.
Having successfully freed myself from things that drive me crazy, I live an exceptionally quiet life these days. I'm ready to change things up. Make some noise. I'm open to suggestions. Make me an offer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking at the horizon and thinking it's time for a new horizon. Ready to break out. Just not sure which way to go. Got any ideas? (I should add I'm lousy with ideas -- meaning louse-y -- run over with, full of. What i lack is clarity/support in execution.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring out stuff for everyone else.
I should have been a therapist/counselor/mother confessor.
I have the gift/curse of clarity -- truth-seeing/telling.
I'm not so good at being diplomatic, but I'm working on it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I look like someone else they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently, I can't get enough of The Moth.
I would feel I hit the big time to win at a Moth event.
(I didn't win, but I did come in 3rd at my first (and not ready)
attempt. I'm going back in!!!!!!!)

I have bookshelves (filled) in every room of the house so
naming a favorite is impossible. I can say that the biggest space
on my shelves is occupied by
Writing (as in how-to's)
Favorite movies?
An equally difficult task...
here are a few that come to mind off the top...

B'fast at Tiffany's
Being John Malkovich
Last Tango in Paris
Raise the Red Lantern
The Hurt Locker
Monty Python & The Holy Grail
Young Frankenstein
Groundhog Day
Black Orpheus
Cole Porter
anything blues-y and or
with a great dance beat
Food...anything healthy/fresh
mostly veggie
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think most of the rest of everything else is negotiable.

there are a lot of things i have been doing without
that i want back
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
do I stay or do I go?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
see "what I am doing with my life."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If your profile has a picture of you on a motorcycle,
or involves Christianity, I'm out.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
write me and I'll tell you