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62 F San Mateo, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–64
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:03pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Thank you, Leonard Cohen.
This says it all for me:

The birds they sang
at the break of day
Start again
I heard them say
Don't dwell on what
has passed away
or what is yet to be.
Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in..
I can't run no more
with that lawless crowd
while the killers in high places
say their prayers out loud.
But they've summoned, they've summoned up
a thundercloud
and they're going to hear from me.
You can add up the parts
but you won't have the sum
You can strike up the march,
there is no drum
Every heart, every heart
to love will come
but like a refugee.

Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack, a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in.

I've been there...done that...
and, as sondheim says...
I'm still here.
Sun shines through the places where I've been tested and tried...some places are cracks...some are canyons..
.I won't lie...but/and...there is acceptance/acknowledgement...
and hard won knowledge...
the lines in my face
reflect the truth in my soul.
I know who I am.
I'm good.

I've got things to do (sing/dance/explore/paint/write/speak)
I've got people to touch (in head and heart)
Itches to scratch
Roots to nourish
And opportunities to explore.

If you are self-aware...
feet firmly planted ...with heart/mind open...
well-tempered/not burned...
spiritually (and specifically, Jewishly) connected...

interested in founding and nurturing a partnership of
head/heart/guts and parts

we def. should talk.
Just for the record, while I love CA and have lived here almost my entire life -- I'm not adamant about being here.

Have love, will travel -- or move.

I do have a preference for beach/mountains and diversity of thought so a backwater is not likely to be my place. But let's talk about it.

Looking forward to meeting you.
What I’m doing with my life
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Looking for the answers to life's big questions. And if I'm not doing that, probably writing something for a client, taking a lovely hot bath and or reading something.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading energy.
Making metaphors.
Dog whispering.
Finding threads of meaning.
The first things people usually notice about me
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probably the barking
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently, I can't get enough of The Moth.
I would feel I hit the big time to win at a Moth event.
B'fast at Tiffany's.
Being John Malkovich
Last Tango
Raise the Red Lantern
The Hurt Locker
Monty Python & The Holy Grail
Cole Porter
anything blues-y
I'm terrible at lists. I can't remember what I had for lunch yesterday. However, I did have an exceptional dinner tonite at Saha, downtown in the City. Check it out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
clean air
hot bath
some quiet
a way to record my thots
and, ok, my teds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I got here and where I'm going next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
see "what I am doing with my life."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If your profile has a picture of you on a motorcycle,
or involves Christianity, I'm out.
You should message me if
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write me and I'll tell you