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63 San Mateo, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 51–67
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:22pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I, as WW said, contain multitudes. I am, however, doing my best to pare things down.That's what happens when you live in one place for more time than you might care to admit: stuff collects. It's OK -- I'd never qualify for hoarder status, but I do find that I am rather overrun with collections of things that I probably don't need, but can't part with, either. I guess that qualifies as a quality problem.

I am oxymoronic. (How many OKC-ers are going to admit to that?) To wit: I am inherently shy, yet often called out on my boldness; low-key, until I step on the stage; I am private, with a deep desire that someone might have the interest/invest the time to know me; and, I am emotionally-rational. Or maybe rationally-emotional. I haven't decided. My head, heart, guts and parts are all strung on the same string. Where one goes, the others must follow. I'm either all in or all out. So FWB/NSA arrangements are not my interest/style. I will admit, though, that my heart leads the gang. I've tried listening to my logical, rational side to choose an appropriate partner and it didn't go. I don't always know where my heart is going, but it does seem to know what's best.

Interest wise, I'm enthralled with the theater, live performance, spoken word, improv, music, dance. Let's just put it all together and say the expressive arts. Things that involve staring at a screen -- and yes, I do more than my share of them -- are of decidedly less interest. (Note: screen as in computer, not movie screen! I love the movies!) My phone is a tool, not a toy. I can go hours w/o checking my email. (Imagine!)

I'd love to find someone to explore bay area trails and towns....sit with in the movies...swing with on the dance floor...and la la la la la. (all the rest of the good stuff.) Buzz in if you think that might be you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Realizing that The Time is NOW; and that carpe diem has never been more apt. I don't have a bucket list, but I'm thinking I might need to get a bucket.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cutting to the chase.
Telling the truth.
Acknowledging what's so.
Listening to what people say.
FInding where it hurts.
Helping to release the pain. (physical, more than emotional, but both are true).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I look like someone else they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently, I can't get enough of The Moth.
I would feel I hit the big time to win at a Moth event.
(I didn't win, but I did come in 3rd at my first (and not ready)
attempt. I'm going back in!!!!!!!)

I have bookshelves (filled) in every room of the house so
naming a favorite is impossible. I can say that the biggest space
on my shelves is occupied by
Writing (as in how-to's)
Favorite movies?
An equally difficult task...
here are a few that come to mind off the top...

B'fast at Tiffany's
Being John Malkovich
Last Tango in Paris
Raise the Red Lantern
The Hurt Locker
Monty Python & The Holy Grail
Young Frankenstein
Groundhog Day
Black Orpheus
Cole Porter
anything blues-y and or
with a great dance beat
Food...anything healthy/fresh
mostly veggie
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think most of the rest of everything else is negotiable.

there are a lot of things i have been doing without
that i want back
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
do I stay or do I go?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
see "what I am doing with my life."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If your profile has a picture of you on a motorcycle,
if you are a devout christian, have a gun in your home,
or think any of the 16 current republican contenders
would be a good choice to lead our country, we really
wouldn't be a good match.
You should message me if
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write me and I'll tell you