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27 M Saint Louis, MO

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:18pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Arabic (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a scientifically minded musician and foodie that's always on the hunt for new eats, sounds, and experiences.

With a penchant for experimentation, fitness, and learning new skills, sometimes I'm dabbling in clothing creation, other times making mead, or picking up new instruments. Always in a crisis for time with all these eclectic habits and despite my love for literature, I don't spend nearly as much time with books as I'd like.

I identify as a metal head in music preference but not with the scene, nor do I enjoy popular metal music. I'm far more likely to enjoy a classical or jazz artist on the radio than a metal one. Luckily I haven't had to rely on radios for music for over a decade.

Although I do enjoy casual relations, I'm slow to warm up and require some sort of emotional or intellectual connection beforehand. That being said, I am fetish friendly and open about my sexuality and always interested in new experiences. I prefer open-relationships & ethical polyamory, yet I'm not against exclusivity if someone is a good enough match.

Basically, I'm just looking for outgoing people to have fun with. People who enjoy music, great conversation, redolent edibles, etc., who compliment my curious personality. Also I'm always looking for people to test my recipes on.
What I’m doing with my life
Just moved into a house in Tower Grove and trying my hand at starting a business with my roommate. I work at a bar on the loop, play in a couple metal bands, and spend a lot of time reading.
Goals are to develop musically and pursue a few scholastic interests recreationally before committing to an academic specialization -> going to grad school.
I’m really good at
Studying, puns, alliteration, baking, massages, stir-frying, math, meading, flaring nostrils, computer technology, science.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Webcomics! XKCD, The Oatmeal, Questionable Content, Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal


Some of my favorite authors are J.R.R. Tolkien, Phillip Pullman, Kurt Vonnegut, Patrick Rothfuss, Douglas Hofstadter, Alan Moore, Niel Gaiman, and Oscar Wilde. Recently most of my reading has been non-fiction. Neuroscience, animal behavior, data, or medicine related.


Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Clerks, The Hobbit, Stardust, Thank You for Smoking, Anchorman, The Princess Bride, Watchmen, Black Swan, The Illusionist, The Seventh Seal, Labyrinth, The Boondock Saints, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Dogma, V for Vendetta, Zoolander, Donnie Darko, The Life of Brian, The Usual Suspects, Dr. Strangelove, Eddie Izzard specials, and anything with Simon Pegg or anything directed by Quentin Tarantino, the Coen brothers, or Tim Burton.

Television Series (rarely watched on TVs)

Parks & Recreation, Outlaw Star, Workaholics, Jeckyl & Hyde, The IT Crowd, Yugioh The Abridged Series, Spaced, Sealab 2021, Futurama, Flying Circus, Arrested Development, MI:5, Baccano!, Robin Hood, Doctor Who, Metalocalypse, Yakitate! Japan, The Guild, Battlestar Gallactica, Sherlock, Firefly, Darker than Black, Game of Thrones, Hellsing, Merlin, Bleach, Trigun, Pure Pwnage, The Dresden Files, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog, Archer, Black Books, House, The Daily Show, Louis CK's tv series, Death Note, and The Colbert Report.


I love new musical experiences. I'm most fond of fusion, folk, and black metal. I've made deep explorations into the various subgenres of heavy including avante-garde black, symphonic, power, thrash, death, viking, pagan, and techdeath. On occasion I'll check out some flamenco, jazz, or classical music, or even hit the symphony. An exhaustive list of my tastes can be viewed by looking for my zanthir

Some of my upcoming shows with Stormcaller are:
Tuesday, August 5th at Fubar with Cannabis Corpse and Grand Inquisitor
Saturday, August 16th at Cicero's with Enflesh, Terra Caput Mundi, Emaciation, Thorhammer, and Decay Crawler
Monday, September 29th at Fubar with Black Anvil, Tyranny Enthroned, and Xaemora


The majority of my gaming these days consists of card, table-top, board, and social console games. Like Scrabble, Euchre, Munchkin, Cards Against Humanity, Just Dance 4, Mario Kart and Rocksmith. games. I quite miss Dokapon Kingdom and would love to get that going again. Or a fun table-top campaign. While I don't video game nearly as much as I used too, I still on occasion playplay League of Legends (summoner name: dissentient). I've enjoyed a variety of RPGs, MOBAs, RTSs, MMOs (LOTRO being my favorite and most recent on Silverlode), and those lovely grid turn-based strategy games in the past (Disgaea, FFT, Ogrebattle Tactics, Advance Wars, Fire Emblem, etc.) I more or less replaced video games with music and I don't think I'll ever quite go back.
The six things I could never do without
My capacity to enjoy the complexity of life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Neuroscience, music, and tasty concoctions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working until the wee hours of the morn.

On the rare occasion I'll take off for a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I tend to rearrange people's kitchens when they leave me unattended.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If concerts, food, cultural events, hiking/cycling/running, or coffee/beer laden conversations are on the agenda.

Or you're open-minded and want to talk.