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zasteva

37 / M / straight / Single

Charlottesville, Virginia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Russian (Poorly)

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I am easygoing, open-minded, and intelligent.

My Self-Summary

I'm easy to get along with, and generally very polite, open-minded, intelligent and capable. I generally end up taking leadership roles in whatever I do. I feel (and look) younger than I am, which I attribute to being a generally happy, optimistic person. I've got a tendency to argue passionately about ideas and interests, but try to temper that with respect for other's opinions. I try to challenge myself, to do things that are difficult but rewarding, not just stay in my comfort zone. I keep pretty active, playing team sports and dancing. While I enjoy the occasional camping trip or hike, I'm not particularly outdoorsy. I love to read, it's one of the best ways for me to recharge. Spending time with my 5 year old son is a top priority for me on the weeks I have him with me.

What I’m doing with my life

Enjoying a relatively tranquil, low stress period while I work from home, and focus energies on family, friends and dating. I recently started firedancing with some friends, and we may form a performing troupe soon.

I’m really good at

Cooking whatever happens to be in the house. Kidding myself about how I really feel about things. Telling lies on date site profiles.

The first things people usually notice about me

That's not the kind of thing I usually ask people, and by the time I would feel comfortable about it they would have forgotten anyway.

But okay, at a guess I'd say it's that I look latino or middle eastern.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: The Lathe of Heaven, The Shadow of the Wind, Jitterbug Perfume, lot's more

Movies: The Russia House, Hunt for Red October, Spy Game, Bullworth, lot's more

The six things I could never do without

Not currently missing anything, so it's kind of hard to judge -- you never really miss a thing till its gone and you need it, and then it seems like the most import thing, doesn't it?

But I would certainly find live less enjoyable without my son, my siblings, good friends, red wine, good food and my health.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to strike the perfect balance of humor and sincerity in dating site profile questions. How did I do?

On a typical Friday night I am

... either home with my son watching movies, or out partying, drinking and dancing. Just depends on what week it is.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've always wanted to start and institute for alternative building methods, and to live on a sailboat in the Caribbean. Combining both has eluded me so I've done neither.

Oh, and I would never get "Caribbean" right without a spell checker.

You should message me if

You are someone who loves life and is fascinated by the world; who is willing to have and pursue wild dreams, but practical enough to do what needs to be done; who has too many interesting things to do to waste time watching TV. Who loves deeply and understands that the more love you give the more you get back. Who is self confident and knows what they want out of life and what kind of person they wish to be.