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25 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 19
Queer, Pansexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Queer, short n curvy, polyamorous feminist. Bird aficionado, compersion seeker, analytical thinker, amateur chef, nature lover, kinky girl. Activist, sounding board, and loyal friend.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work with a medical marijuana attorney in Oakland doing project and office management. It's amazing to be able to merge my passion for cannabis activism with a well paying job!

I graduated from Mills College in 2013 but haven't seemed to use my Research Psychology degree much...figures. I don't regret the debt or time invested, my education has greatly empowered me.

I worked at an exotic bird store for 15 years, starting as a volunteer when I was seven. I have learned so much about anything feathered. I currently have eleven birds, ten little guys and then a Noble Macaw named Mr. Phoebe who I have had for over fifteen years. He is the most amazing bird and brings so much joy to my life. I also have begun breed Lineolated parakeets in the last six months. They are wonderful little birds! I do work in behavioral analysis and training with birds in my spare time. I guess I do use some of that psychology degree from time to time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I really love cooking and experimenting with new cuisines. I grew up with a mother who was always cooking and enjoying the wide range of food available in the Bay Area. I guess I have always been spoiled when it comes to what makes it on my plate, let me cook for you!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height, then eyes...then probably hair?

Or my echoing cackle of a's slightly contagious.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The ocean
Kinky Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the next few years will bring in my life.
What makes a person tick.
What I should cook next.
Why OKC doesn't have "queer" as a sexual orientation. Bisexual isn't how I truly identify but I am pigeonholed into it. I know I'm not the only one. **edit-thanks OKC for finally listening!!**
Compersion and the joys of polyamory, alongside its trials.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Winding down from the week...which is anything from staying in and watching a movie, going out to a bar, catching an awesome show, to catching up on missed sleep. My Monday to Friday schedule has made it so that I wake up so early and get sleepy early as well...but caffeine can serve as an aid to that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I never learned how to ride a bike. As a kid I lived in a house on top of a steep hill, had a mom who wasn't into outdoor activities, and a dad who never learned either. Now I'm older and have just never got around to it...most people don't have a bike that's small enough for me to learn on.

I'm kinky as all fuck. I identify as a service oriented submissive, exhibitionist, and a masochist. I've spent time in the bay area kink community but there is never enough time to go to every event I want to. I'm into safe, sane, and consensual play. You should be too.

In May 2014, I got married to my partner in crime, maker_greg. We date separately most of the time but hey, there are unicorns frolicking about on here..
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
~You have facial hair. Weakness. Seriously.
~You're gender non conforming and want to get down with a pansexual high femme.
~You want to go on hikes and enjoy the fresh air with me while rambling on about everything and nothing at all.
~You are not opposed to dating/seeing someone who is in a polyamorous relationship.
~You want to talk about polyamory, consent, communication, kink or hell, even birds. I always welcome new local friends who have common interest.
~You dab. A lil dab'll do ya.