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24 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Judaism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
In desperate need of some edits...
What I’m doing with my life
This last May I graduated from Mills College with my BA. My primary focus is in gender development and intergroup relationships, although I am turning my focus in the upcoming year to pathology and all things clinical. I cannot wait to get moving and onto my masters/credential program, I am considering teaching elementary school and then later moving deeper into the psychology field. I thrive off learning and am in the best environment that I can think of!

I have been working at an exotic bird store for 15 years, starting as a volunteer when I was seven. I have learned so much about anything feathered. I currently have two birds, a Noble Macaw named Mr. Phoebe who I have had for over ten years. He is the most amazing bird and brings so much joy to my life. I just recently added a second smaller bird to my flock, Limon the canary-winged parakeet. She's shy but getting used to the motions. My fiancé maker_greg and I just adopted four little linneolated parakeets...the flock just keeps growing!

I used to work with a children's theater camp as a camp director and costumer. I love working with kids and have learned so much from them, patience being number one (I sometimes had up to 200 kids a session!)

And in my "spare" time I like to go out to a few weekly and monthly events in the city, go hiking, watch documentaries on anything, geek out in some psychology research, stare at the wall, learn a new cooking technique, or cuddle with my birds.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, then eyes...then probably hair?
The six things I could never do without
The ocean
Kinky Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the next few years will bring in my life.
What makes a person tick.
How to make some extra cash (oh college...)
What I should cook next.
Why OKC doesn't have "queer" as a sexual orientation. Bisexual isn't how I truly identify but I am pigeonholed into it. I know I'm not the only one.
Compersion and the joys of polyamory, alongside its trials.
On a typical Friday night I am
Winding down from the week...which is anything from staying in and watching a movie, going out to a bar, catching an awesome show, to catching up on missed sleep. Thursday or Tuesday are usually my nights out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I never learned how to ride a bike. As a kid I lived in a house on top of a steep hill, had a mom who wasn't into outdoor activities, and a dad who never learned either. Now I'm older and have just never got around to it...most people don't have a bike that's small enough for me to learn on.

I'm kinky as all fuck. I identify as a submissive, exhibitionist, and a masochist. I've spent time in the bay area kink community but there is never enough time to go to every event I want to. I'm into safe, sane, and consensual play. You should be too.

I'm in a poly relationship with maker_greg, getting married in May! We date separately most of the time but hey, there are unicorns frolicking about on here..
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 21–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you have facial hair. Weakness. Seriously.
you dab. A lil dab'll do ya.