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24 Auckland, New Zealand Woman


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  • Ages 20–29
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Last online
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5′ 6″ (1.67m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Likes cats
My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
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Writing, reading, walking in parks and graveyards, accumulating fines for overdue library books, interpreting dreams, sleeping with a pile of books next to me in my bed, trying to keep my houseplants alive, feeding pigeons.

I used to work in a shop but I'm not a very good salesperson.
Actual conversation:
Customer: Are these high quality?
Me: I don't know, probably
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being modest...

Identifying birds
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Vintage/op shop dress, cynical/jaded expression.

Was staring at someone today and I thought they couldn't see my eyes behind my sunglasses, then I realised I was wearing reading glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Smiths,The Beatles, The Kinks, Belle & Sebastian, The Strokes, Tame Impala, Animal Collective, Ducktails, Beach Fossils, Deerhunter, Girls, Foxygen, of Montreal, The Antlers, Beach House, Unknown Mortal Orchestra, Soko, Elvis Depressedly, Coma Cinema, Kane Strang.

No One Belongs Here More Than You by Miranda July, Autoportrait by Édouard Levé, The Stranger by Albert Camus, Don't Let Me Be Lonely by Claudia Rankine, My Life by Lyn Hejinian, The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath, Eat When You Feel Sad by Zachary German, Shoplifting from American Apparel by Tao Lin, selected unpublished blog posts of a mexican panda express employee by Megan Boyle, I Go To Some Hollow by Amina Cain, Creature by Amina Cain, A Fixed, Formal Arrangement by Allison Carter, Sum Total by Allison Carter, Considering how exaggerated music is by Leslie Scalapino, Because They Wanted To by Mary Gaitskill, My Apologies Accepted by Bunny Rogers, The Human War by Noah Cicero, Rontel by Sam Pink, Self and Others by R.D Laing, Knots by R.D Laing.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Science of Sleep, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Me and You and Everyone We Know, Lars and the Real Girl, Heavenly Creatures, Funny Ha Ha.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Writing implements, books, herbal tea, carrots, "scare" quotes, ellipses...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Damn I didn't win that thing I didn't enter

All of culture is a defence mechanism

How do I "break into" the art world?

I think it's time to start and then abandon a third website about myself/my writing

Would you rather be naive or jaded?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Balancing my chakras.

Looking after my tamagotchi.

Still mourning the umbrella I lost in a bar ~6 weeks ago.

The summer months are actually more depressing because at least in winter no one really expects you to be having a good time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
~5 years ago i thought it was a good idea to buy a shirt with this on it:
shirts with a haiku
they're kind of overrated
but I'm wearing one
You should message me if
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You are funny and sad.