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zeeartfuldodger

38 M Philadelphia, PA

I’m looking for

  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 25
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
University
Job
Administration
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm looking for running buddies...

I enjoy shopping, museums, theatre and fine dining. You know... Typical gay shit! lol
Btw - if you were thinking "Typical Gay Shit" when you read that, safe to say we probably are not a buddy match.

But - if you were thinking "Oh yay, that sounds fun!", message me immediately!
Primarily, I'm looking for guys with little to no hang ups about having a good, clean Vertical time in the city. I need good understanding friends more than I need a roll in the hay.

Let's talk over a bottle of wine. Let's catch the latest exhibit at the PMA. Let's hop a train to NYC and catch a broadway matinee! Oh God, that rhymed - totally didn't mean to sound like dr. Seuss there.

Call me a snob, but fine dining doth not include Chinese Buffets, the local Applebee's or anything that includes the word Factory at the end of it's name. Think "Vernick", "R2L" and "XIX".

If all of this sounds good to you, let's make a play date!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working on Career #2...
I was a copy editor - now I'm back in school for cosmetology, with the plan to someday be a salon owner.
It's Interesting being a student again. 😊
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...cooking.
...making folks laugh.
...wrapping gifts?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let me know after out first meet up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like memoirists like Augusten Burroughs and David Sedaris.

My musics tastes vary from one day to the next. - Frank Ocean, Radiohead, Bjork, Tori Amos, Teena Marie, Passion Pit, The Ting Tings - But a mainstay is Prince. Prince is a god - that is all.

For my watching pleasure...

Revenge
Scandal
The Killing
Damages
How To Make It In America
Boardwalk Empire
Treme
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love
Friendship
Family
Romance
Honesty
Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Just thinking about what's next in general - in the immediate and not so immediate future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner or at the movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit is that I'm a very private person ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
What has become painfully clear to me this last go 'round is that I need a communicator. I'm at a point in my life where I'd rather not waste time with someone who's barely going through the motions and not willing to try. Know what you want and be willing to share that early. The earlier we figure out something essential, like not being compatible, the better.