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55 Sebastopol, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:23pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Space camp
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), Ancient Greek (Somewhat), Mongolian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The journey is my reward. I am sensitive, open minded and always interested in discovering more about improving myself, especially when I'm inspired by a devoted partner. I'm not looking for just sex. Frankly, I can't be in a physical relationship unless I'm truly emotionally connected with that person. For me lovemaking a powerful language that translates a significant and passionate connection. I enjoy easy going companionship, sensual romance and sharing great memories with someone who has good character and a lively personality. I live a clean prosperous lifestyle with an emphasis on creating a healthy balance between work, recreation and my personal relationships.

I strive to live in a constant state of gratitude = 'great + attitude'

I have been an entrepreneur all my working life and have enjoyed meeting many thousands of clients from all over the world. When I'm not working I appreciate having close one-on-one conversations and being a great friend. I love learning about people from within their own significant 'story' - finding out what is most important in their life and what they are truly passionate about. I like to be entertained and enjoy entertaining others socially.

Although the world can be pretty dramatic sometimes... I'm looking for peace and enlightenment amidst all the chaos. Useful drama belongs on a theatrical stage. I am easily fascinated by any number of subjects and I love to dream about all the possibilities that are waiting to happen; even more excited to be part of that manifestation. Being somewhat of an idealist, I try not to be daunted by negativity. Serendipity is often my road map.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm building my business to a point where I can retire (focus on my artistic passions) comfortably. I'm supporting my wonderful 18 year old daughter to become a marvelous adult - 3000 miles away in college! I'm remodeling my tudor house to become an exquisite home. I'm writing plays, musicals and movie screenplays that I will produce and direct in the future. I'm discovering new pleasures in the world and people around me. I'm seeking the essence of living wholeheartedly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making good things happen for myself and others I may influence. I can co-create environments and make things work for people in a physical world - ergonomics and turn-key are my forte. I stylize promotional efforts with creative writing and good visuals. I'm an idea guy - a dreamer with a propensity for making things happen.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Charismatic, outgoing, communicative, enthusiastic and passionate about whatever I'm doing or talking about... but also rather 'chill' and laid back in my approach. I'm 6'3" and very 'present' when I walk into a room so I've learned to be 'OK' with making a strong first impression even though I typically end up finding a one-on-one and really getting to know someone in particular.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love all kinds movies and live stage performances. I'm pretty active so I don't get as much time to read as I would like. I love healthy natural whole food and enjoy finding good international cuisine. I'm pretty eclectic musically, listening to classical, jazz, rock, modern pop, broadway show tunes and indie. Don't appreciate, hard rap, metal or too much country.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, my freedom, my memories, my friends, opportunities to be creative. Someone for whom I truly care.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All the projects and ideas that I have yet to manifest along with all the places I have yet to visit in this truly fascinating world. I constantly think about improving my opportunities in life and what positive influence I can have on people I know or come in contact with. In my quieter moments, I think about the fascination that life holds for me. I wonder about the possibilities...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a night out with someone special, going to theater, a movie or a live performance of some kind. Enjoying a nice dinner at a new ethnic restaurant or going out to the ocean to watch the sunset
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm actually pretty willing to share what may be private about me in lots of ways. Ask me... I enjoy being honest and intimate.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. can be open minded with integrity and strong self esteem. can maintain a mutual respect for the world and people you influence. can be kind, affectionate, compassionate, nurturing easy going and fun to be around... you'll be able appreciate the differences in men and their complimentary contrasts to women. you strive to be independent, self sufficient and capable in co-creating a healthy emotional balance with everyone in your circle. Honesty and sincerity is paramount in my relationships and being able to process life's challenges courageously is always a winning factor.