I'm kind, candid, and witty.
I love art and I tend to see the bright side of everything. I'm
very comfortable meeting new people and always feel as though I fit
in, although I never had any desire to conform. I am a loyal
friend, an eager helper, and it is nearly impossible to get me
angry. Convinced of my own coolness, despite evidence to contrary,
I've been a litigator, teacher, real estate developer, management
consultant, race car driver, product designer, and visual artist.
Strangers frequently ask if I am a comedian. I'm still not. That
was a frequent inquiry in grade school as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Creating art, helping others, trying to increase kindness and calm
in the world.
I’m really good at
Thinking that whatever I am doing is tremendously cool, telling
stories, making analogies, closing arguments, staying calm in
crisis, creating art, procrastinating, having fun, solving
problems, applying logic, listening, remembering. I have unlimited
The first things people usually notice about me
There are 2 little dogs in my backpack.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay, The Life of
Pi, Heyday, Marjorie Morningstar, Mama Day, My Name is Asher Lev,
The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, The Tipping Point, Outliers,
Freakanomics, Where the Wild Things Are, My Lonely Miserable
Theater: Hair (this play is almost a religion to me. It is Hamlet.
It is la Boheme. It is about tribe, in so many ways. And it is
about parents and children. If it's playing anywhere, let's go),
Movies: It Happened One Night, Chicago, Monsoon Wedding, Slumdog
Millionaire, True Romance, Reservoir Dogs, A River Runs Through It,
Pulp Fiction, Scarface, Avalon (Michael really did start the fire),
Menace II Society, Wet Hot American Summer, Snatch, Casablanca, In
the Heat of the Night, The Silence of the Lambs, Roman Holiday, The
Talented Mr. Ripley, This is Spinal Tap, The Godfather, Ferris
Bueller's Day Off, Godfather II, Full Metal Jacket,
TV: Arrested Development, Modern Family, The Sopranos, Breaking
Bad, The Wire
The six things I could never do without
It's all about people. Family and friends who love me and whom I
love. In the recent past, I have received and seen such incredible
goodness from others. It only makes me want to live up to those
examples. Sure, I'm fond of my iPad, my scooter, coffee, and other
things, but I know that I can live without them, though I don't
care to. Relationships are key.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This used to mention my inability to stick with a hairstyle. True,
but perhaps something more profound? I think that the world exists
for people to contribute to improving the lot of others. Am I
Okc specific: this app says that I showed up in 1540 searches in
the past 24 hours. Really? Only 2 women looked at my profile.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Due to some as-yet undiagnosed pathology, I mistakenly believe that
I am far more attractive than I actually am. This explains why I
may send you a message though you know you're way out of my league.
Please, be kind. It's a medical issue. Humor me.
You should message me if
if you are kind, funny and pretty and you think I am.