I'm a pretty laid back person. I just bought a house and enjoy hanging out...in it. I'm not a clubbing/scene type of person but really am pretty open-minded. I like PDAs as long as they're mine and not other people's cause, seriously, ew. Ummm, I've got a desk job that I really like, good friends, good family. I'm trying to be more active and outdoorsy. I love swimming and am trying to walk a couple miles a day.

I'm very liberal. I am very involved in politics and I think that apathy is the worst possible trait.

Anyway, I'm pretty happy right now but always looking for a new adventure/experience/exciting story to tell.

I have found that it is hard for me to meet people. You don't always get the best results when you meet people in bars or clubs. So here I am.

You should know I'm not a waif. I probably never will be. But I enjoy life. I have wonderful friends and family and I'm willing to try anything once.

Also, I know it says I've been on here since 2005 but I haven't been single that whole time, trolling on okcupid. Just reactive whenever the need arises!

I work in an office but I'm also going to school. I am apparently on the ten year plan, but I haven't given up. I don't know what I want to do when I grow up. I love to travel and don't do it as much as I'd like.

I'm trying to find balance in my life between being a mother and being me.

Telling you random pop culture facts that you never knew/wanted to know, playing Scene It and Trivial Pursuit, giving compliments and back rubs!

Not so good at: not getting in fender benders, playing the violin (but I'm trying), being subtle, ironing.

Hmmm. People have told me that my eyes are beautiful. And once they get past that, they realize I'm pretty laid back and funny and open minded. I can make conversation with just about everyone. If you have something to say, that is.

Also, I just realize that everyone says the first thing people notice is their eyes and how beyoooteeful they are. So I should probably change that but I won't.

Chick lit, The Onion, George Carlin, David Sedaris, Hitchhiker's Guide, Stephen King, Foretting Sarah Marshall, Superbad, Lord of the Rings, Pirates of the Caribbean, The Office, Office Space, 40 Year Old Virgin, Knocked Up, Old School, Dazed and Confused, Trainspotting, Being John Malkovich, Britney Spears, Alice in Chains, The Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Black Sabbath, Spice Girls, Indian Food, SUSHI, anything featuring green chile.

My kid, my tv and dvd player, book collection (hey, counts as one thing!), uh, cell phone, my car, my house.

Important things like world politics and, um, less important things like Jamie Lynn Spears and Brad Pitt. Hah. Gotta be honest.

Well, lately you can find me hanging out with friends at karaoke. I love to sing and will do it loudly whether you want me to or not. Maybe my recent songs will tell you something about me.
I Feel Fine - Beatles
I'll Be There For You - Bon Jovi (Have ALWAYS wanted to do that one and I rocked it!)
Pour Some Sugar On Me - Def Leppard
Cult of Personality - Living Colour
Magic Man - Heart

I like to bowl but I'm not very good at that either. Wait, who am I kidding? They don't call me The Dude for nothing (points if you know what I'm takling about. Otherwise, maybe having a drink with my friends, at the movies, or chilling at home with my daughter.

I'm not perfect. Far from it. And I don't expect you to be, but I'm hoping that together we can get pretty close!

You have a good sense of humor. Make me laugh and it's on.

You can have a conversation/debate/difference of opinion and even if we don't agree, you acknowledge that that's okay.

You are open to new experiences.

You can laugh at my jokes even if they're not that funny.

Also, I've had crazy relationships in the past. I don't want to date juggalos or unemployed musicians waiting for their big break. Sorry, but I've been there, done that, and it hasn't ended well.