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59 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:54am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and wants more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Heads up for those who visited or quick matched me--if you rated me 4 or 5 stars please show the guts to actually message me, cop to your attraction, and agree to a speed date at the earliest opportunity.

I am a retired engineer, teacher, temp who volunteers. All my answers here and in the Questions section are based on the precepts of Radical Honesty--it's a book. I am Quebecois.

BTW, I am (INTJ rare) NOT less kind or romantic or friendly with strangers or worse mannered (trained as an officer and a gentleman in military school) than average and being an intentional Bodhisattva is very important to me--so all I can say is that the "staff robot" personality parser is FLAWED...
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm retired and volunteering my time with local schools, museums, and the Boy Scouts as visiting astronomer with Project Astro, tutor, docent, and coach. I also spend time on astronomy and science fiction convention committees as a staffer or volunteer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Amateur astronomy outreach education, science and math tutoring, trivia recall, my French toast recipe. Above average in deep tissue, reflexology and erotic massage and lay Tantric sex lessons. In high school phys ed I bowled in high 250s and had a few 300s, I also lobbed easy aces too often in tennis class-found these boring and too easy. Want to get really better at racquetball, tantric sex, weight loss and control, being someone YOU want to hang with.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My persistence, my persistence, my persistence, my persistence--
people saying NO to me eventually go away or give in.

My football player bulk (cousin to Gus Dorais-look him up). My smile. My ASD-still have very mild adult Asperger's symptoms. My strabismus walleye--from an failed butchered eye surgery when I was 4 yo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- science, astronomy, cosmology, hard science fiction, current events and Eastern philosophy-Pali Canon and Zen Koans.

Science Fiction--prefer the New Weird, the New Space Opera, Mundane, The Culture series of Iain M. Banks--used to like old school Masters, cyberpunk, alt. histories, dystopian/apolcalypse thrillers but these catergories have become tired/ overworked/ cliche ridden sub genres. Horrified at video game tie-in fad, pandering to franchises-Star Wars/Trek and glut of fantasy versus future shock innoculating good SF. "The Marching Morons" and "The Cold Equations" are favorite short stories.

Movies, TV and live theater-science fiction, fantasy, romantic comedies. Music- jazz, classical, new age, '63-'74 rock and pop, folk. My "soundtrack" includes-- Birdland- Weather Report instrumental/ Manhattan Transfer vocals; Somewhere-West Side Story-any version; Holst-The Planets; Rhapsody in Blue-Gershwin. Currently enjoying Loreena McKennitt, Melody Gardot, Nora Jones,and Kundalini meditation chant music.

Food- Diabetic/ hypertensive and on a modified high protein low slow and fiber carb diet; BUT addicted to cashews, honey roasted nuts, butter pecan, butterscotch or toffee, french vanilla ice creams, orange and cream sorbet, sorbets generally; green, white, herbal, rooibos teas, butterscotch and toffee candy, Southern recipe pecan pie (Mississippi aunt had an orchard).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cable or satellite media; my Internet connection; my disability income; my cats; my curiosity; hopefully especially YOU.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The WOW and whys of the universe; Zen-Taoist-Ba'Hai-Tantric practice; cosmology; how I can be a better Bodhisattva Tantrika Intentional.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the computer, watching TV; OR going to movies, concerts, the theatre, festivals, and science fiction conventions-Room bid parties--when in town.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have an illegitimate daughter whom I've never met.

I don't have a corpus callosum. I am disabled by carpal tunnel, diabetic neuropathy, inherited depression,/anxiety/panic attacks--all under very successful medication. I will be tolerant of your flaws if you are of mine.

My grandfather designed the first Neon signs in Portland including the Portland marquee at PCPA Schnitzer Hall.
You should message me if
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Also looking for 38-56 yo women but only if you're okay with polyamory casual sex relationships--if 18-37 yo I am in SERIOUS search for a mother to a new batch of kids...

You consider yourself NOT one of the Marching Morons (see above short story reference). Someone who doesn't care how things work or can't fix and maintain them. Prefer dealing with the top 5% who DO care and CAN fix/maintain stuff. Including families, cultures and societies not just the techie materialism flotsam. Couch potatoes who just passively receive the bread and circuses; rather than actually make them, need not contact me.

You are serious about being one of my mates for my life's second half.

You are serious about learning Tantric Sex/ Kama Sutra/ Kundalini Yoga in order to be a better future lover. You are a hedonist. You are an eager Tantrika Yogini Dakini Acolyte and have to experience bliss-rapture-satori-nirvana-ecstasy via yab-yumming toward cosmic crown chakra multi-orgasmic explosions to achieve soulmate godhood oneness.

You are tolerant of or participate in alternative lifestyle choices like nudist/naturist; science fiction convention sub culture, polyamory; geek/nerddom.

You want a great reflexology/ shaitsu/ deep tissue/ erotic massage from a lay amateur.

You are eager to be my exercise/ activity partner and would enjoy beating me at racquetball, keep up with me when walking, hiking, biking and RV-ing the occasional star party campout-you should like the unlight-polluted WOW of the night sky. As an amateur astronomer I CAN promise you the Sun, the Moon, and the Stars and I WILL deliver.

You agree or are tolerant of my progressive, populist, Libertarian, Green amalgam of political views.

You just want to date and see where it goes.

You just want sex. You're horny and I'm available for a booty call/hookup.

One or more of the above would be MORE than ideal.

Because of mild ASD; knowing what to say here is really hard and I've been involuntarily celibate since '97 (for economic* not ED reasons)--just flat tired of being alone and have ALOT to offer the right women (I am polyamorist in disposition).

If you are a true Redhead-carpet and drapes, any ethnic Asian, a Mixed race hybrid or any Other with strong Kegel muscle control we WILL have a great time. If you're 18-26 I would like to create a new human with your fresh eggs- if Tony Randall can do it at 75 and Steve Martin at 67 then I can have a chance to leave behind someone who actually liked the fact that I existed. You would be primary income earner to my househusband. Pre-medication/ therapy, my grown stepchildren/ ex-wife would disagree this is a good idea--screw them.

If you are 27-37 you had better have great genes. Biological facts are cruel to easily offended feminists.

If you are 38-56 we can still have fun doing stuff and helping each other. If you're 56+ WHY are you still here??? having read this far?? Adios y buenas suerte in your search.

You will NEVER find a man this honest about what he really wants...All men lie about what they REALLY want -a home, meals like mom gave them and great sex-the rest is all your conned-into romantic bullshit they think you want to hear. This is locker-room gossip truism for all men.

I practise radical honesty and will never lie to you.

* Budget the luxuries first and fair % share/ dutch everything else.