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30 Los Angeles, CA Man, Non-binary, Genderqueer

Man, Non-binary, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Submitted for the approval of the midnight society: my rambling mess of a dating profile.

I enjoy filmmaking, making music, and writing. In my spare time I like to watch movies, play video and board games, watch tv, bike, camp, walk near rivers (which is hard here), and talk with friends. I enjoy nature, I miss rivers and trees. I clean the lint trap before AND after each use. I've never had coffee before.

Big ticket items in no particular order:
-I support gay marriage and gender equality (for all the genders!)
-I don't really care about sports. I do like to snowboard and bike though, as far as sports go. And I love to play Badminton for whatever reason. (I keep a full tournament Badminton set in my trunk. 0.o) I like bike to work, so that's my favorite and most frequent source of exercise.
-I don't much care for the bar scene.
-I've never smoked a cigarette or weed, smoke makes me sneeze.
-I'm allergic to cats, dust, and dairy (sad trombone.)
-I'd much rather be too cold than too hot.
-I like my family.
-I like genuine people.
-I think gender is not binary for everyone.

What I’m doing with my life
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My day job is magnificent, I get to shoot, cut, write, and be in videos every day (and my co-workers are pretty great!) My passions are writing and directing. I rarely feel more alive than when working on set, or rehearsing with a great group of collaborators. I also do a web show for kids and a comedy news show about video games.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing. And being modest about my singing talent.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Princess Bride, Blood Meridian, The Road, Time's Arrow, Lolita, Invitation to a Beheading, Despair, The Alchemist, Zen Flesh Zen Bones, Dune, Cat's Cradle, Slaughterhouse Five

Movies: Upstream Color, Holy Motors, The Princess Bride, Chinatown, The Conversation, Cache, Borgman, Bring Me the Head of Alfredo Garcia, Melancholia, Moonrise Kingdom, The Royal Tenenbaums, 13 Assassins, The Wild Bunch, Brick, The Brothers Bloom, 2001, Apocalypse Now, The Thing, Drive, Fargo, The Limey, LA Confidential, Back to the Future (all three), Indiana Jones (1-3, but mostly 1 and 3), El Topo, No Country for Old Men, Wall-e, Up, Let the Right One In, The Big Lebowski, Die Hard, Dark City, Dr. Strangelove, The Goonies, Ghostbusters, Jurassic Park, Spaceballs, Star Trek, Das Weisse Band (The White Ribbon), Secretary, Mystery Train, Moon, Casino Royale, Fifth Element, North by Northwest, Psycho, Rear Window, Only Lovers Left Alive...

Television: The Knick, Hannibal, True Detective, Breaking Bad, The Prisoner (60s), BSG, Sherlock (BBC), Game of Thrones, Fringe, Star Trek: TNG, Parks and Recreation, Twin Peaks, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Cowboy BeBop, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog

Music: Tom Waits, Son Lux, Perfume Genius, Deux (French), Lightning Dust, Santigold, The Velvet Underground, Geo Wyeth, Nick Cave and The Bad Seeds, Grinderman, Nils Frahm, Dawn of Midi, Mykki Blanco, Black Mountain, Fugazi, Grinderman, Lightning Bolt, Pixies, The Kills, Queen, Terrible Spaceship, Skytree, Talking Heads, Tune Yards

Board Games: Netrunner, Hanabi, Diplomacy, Dominion, Thunderstone, DnD, Eldritch Horror, Betrayal at the House on the Hill, Go, Zertz, Scrabble, Chrononauts, Aquarius, the BSG board game.

Video Games: Bloodborne, Dark Souls, various indie games

Food: Turkey Burgers, Chicken, Noodles, Asian food, French Toast (when it's dairy free.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, hugs, fresh air, good films, rewarding creative work, and Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, love, projects.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the movies, or hanging out with friends. Or working on something. Or watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have an irrational fear of man-made structures in water. But I like lighthouses a lot. Who knows.
You should message me if
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you think we'd be a good pair.